Size

[littlealterego]

I apologise if I'm not meant to post in the CG area since I'm a little but I wanted to ask the CGs a question.

 

Does having a little who is physically bigger than you make it harder to go into CG headspace?

 

I'm a little but I'm 195cm (6"5) tall and 160kg. I can push cars and lift Fridges, 3 seater couches etc by myself. And I'm starting to feel like maybe my size is a barrier to me finding a Mummy. All the blokes I see that have Mummys are your stereotypical small fellas short skinnyetc.

[Guest BigDaddyDominant]

Not at all. I as a Daddy actually don't care about physical size. to me its the size of your  heart that matters.Then again I'm not a small bloke myself and have gone through the shame game myself. Just be you and you'll find the right one he or she is out there. Don't give up hope.

[spillingfluids]

Nope! Whenever my lg is in littlespace, even though she’s 6’1 and I’m 5’3, the differences in our headspaces causes me to go into a great cg-headspace, and I have no issue with it at all. I’m sure you’ll find a mommy out there who’ll accept you no matter what, I’m kind of in the same sort of search personally. Good luck to you, size defines nothing but a difference in size, not anything that regards headspace

[neko]

feel free to read this post. obviously switch out the pronouns for your own

 

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/46894-do-daddies-like-bigger-girls/?do=findComment&comment=237990

Edited April 5, 2020 by neko

[Lollipox]

Neko, I can see the slight relevancy as to why you referred to your topic. But the OP seems to mostly be asking about the CG’s headspace rather than asking the generic “Am I too *blank* to be a Little?” and putting themselves down.

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I could understand Mommies feeling less CG due to the knowledge that you could totally pick her up and throw her lol

But by the same regard- all Littles are adults. It’s not that they “can’t open the jar”, it’s that they want their partner or CG to help them and dote on them. And generally for CGs, they want to feel needed and feel important when they can help their Little. It’s very much based around the suspension of disbelief.

 

We can all cut our own food up, pour ourselves a sippy cup, read stories to ourselves, climb a chair to reach a shelf (for shorties like me lol). But we choose to include and rely on our CGs because we like needing them, and they generally like to feel needed and special to us (cuz they are).

 

So, you can lift the couch when your potential Mummy’s looking for the remote or something- surely that would earned stickers n shizz. Right? Haha

 

Side note: There’s def some Mummies who get their jollies over babying a dude bigger than them. Dunno how common, but it’s totally a thing.

Edited April 5, 2020 by P o x

[littlealterego]

Thanks everyone. I think it was a mix of both honestly wanting to know if it effected peopled but also getting down on mysellf a bit. So everyones comments were really helpful.

[MysticSand]

Helluuuuuu! I can only answer this from my own experience with my only and current little.

He's taller than me and larger size wise (not due to weight issues, mainly just because he's male and I'm female).

 

Size isn't a barrier for us and actually I just met him in person only recently after being his LDR CG for a year.

I think it's all about personality and head space. When he does Little things or speaks in his Little voice, it's CG game-on.

But even without him doing Little tasks or speaking in his Little voice, I'm very aware of our CG/L roles and so I'm pretty naturally in CG mode all the time.

It helps that he takes direction easily, and, well, I'm just bossy!

 

So, have confidence that it's all about matching personalities and interests and on things so much deeper than size or title!

Keep your head up about finding a CG because it's for sure super hard to find someone that you can fit together with. It'll be worth the wait. 

[littlealterego]

Thabks Mystic sand. May I ask how much of a size difference there is? I worry I bit becuase I am MASSIVE to the point of intimidating.

[MysticSand]

Thabks Mystic sand. May I ask how much of a size difference there is? I worry I bit becuase I am MASSIVE to the point of intimidating.

 

Uhmmmmm. I don't know how to specify this. He's not too too much larger than me but definitely taller enough where I have to be aware of how much to stretch/jump so as not to headbutt him when kissing anywhere on his face (forget about the top of his head).

[littlealterego]

Cheers Mystic sand thats a pretty decent explaination

[Guest Minister Judas]

I honestly am unphased by anything pertaining to size, it's all about the heart to me.