Do any caregivers sometimes talk like a little?

[Guest DaddysTinyPrincess]

Do any caregivers sometimes talk like a little? Im a middle and my daddy claims to be a daddy but he sometimes acts little or will talk little which takes me completely out of little space.

[Guest CrabbyFriend]

Rarely, but I have with past relationships. If my middle or little was in little space my voice adjust if we are playing. I may go into 'daddy space'. I think it just depends on how each person sees/feels their role. Honesty gets you answers. If it takes you out of little space it sounds like a concern. I would have an open conversation. At least you would get an idea of why he does. My best friend had a daddy who was a switch. Until they had that conversation she never knew and it caused issues the further in the relationship they went. I hope everything works out for you!

[Alaskan Daddy]

as a daddy I have never talked like a little. You will need to decide if it is something you can continue to have in your relationship. He is just showing you his feelings and that does not make him a bad daddy, it may mean that he might not be the right daddy for you. Remember that your feelings matter also.

[Jemas]

ive done it when like teaching a little a lesson or like talking like them to encourage them

 

but not like full blown little speak 

[Guest DaddysTinyPrincess]

ive done it when like teaching a little a lesson or like talking like them to encourage them

 

but not like full blown little speak 

He said "his name" needs to go nigh nigh. Thats all... do you consider that little speak?

[Little kaiya]

I wouldn't necessarily consider it little speak but I would ask my Daddy not to do it as for me it would just feel weird.

[Vampiress]

I don't consider it a little thing or baby speak but if it makes you uncomfortable then that's a personal preference and should be discussed with your CG. However, I'd be careful to not nitpick over every little thing they do that you think might be little but aren't sure cause then they won't think they're ever able to make you happy or they'll not feel good enough as a CG and feel a little alienated from you. You are going to have to consider some compromise and start with the things that bother you the most and consider letting go of your upset over really minor things.

Edited July 8, 2020 by Batgirl

[Vampiress]

To add to my above post, also be careful about being picky over too many things that are super minor. At some point it'll seem like you're the Dominant making all the rules, unless you want to be a little dom then that's different.

[Guest Snowylittle]

My daddy does most of the time. He's really playful and always talks like I do in little space. But I enjoy it. It feels like we're even closer and I like that he only does it with me. But if you don't like it then you definitely should talk to your caregiver about it. Maybe he thinks you like it. (Sorry for my bad English:()

[MysticSand]

My speech doesn't go Little but my voice tonality for sure does and so will the way I react to things. I know my personality is a low percentage Little though and my Little knows that so it's not weird.

[Guest ♥️ Hayden Babygirl♥️]

Yes, but I'm also a switch.

[Guest Minister Judas]

I will freely admit that I will reflect my little's personality when she is in little space to an extent, changing the tone of my voice and such, but that is more to be encouraging of her to be little longer and to make her feel happy and safe. I do not use little speak, though, unless I'm picking on her. 

[PrincessOfWhales]

i dont consider that to be little speak to be honest. 

i dont do "baby talk", but some of my words might get altered... "ni ni" being one of them.

if its something that you say too, i think its normal for him to pick up on your altered words over time, and start using them when speaking to you. If you don't like it though, you should definitely talk to him about it

 

 

 

He said "his name" needs to go nigh nigh. Thats all... do you consider that little speak?

[HugsAndNaps]

my daddy often speaks in a cutesy or little manner, not "baby talk" tho, more like picking up the same words i use or way i speak or mimicking me. he sometimes does that to make me feel more little like "yes you're cute right? you're so cute anf little" in a higher voice that makes me giggle

so maybe your daddy just picked that up from you or just felt like saying it, which isn't a crime and also not real baby talk, but maybe ask him if he likes using these words so you know what to expect c:

[Bearly]

I don't talk little but I like some little stuff, like cartoons and plushies, so I'm definitely on the softer/gentler end of the caregiver spectrum.

[Guest XoX_SweetPea_XoX]

My daddy talks little to me when I'm feeling cuddly, or if I'm upset and in need of calming, cause if I'm upset his tone can bring on a manic state, so he talk little while doing his calming techniques.  

[Guest Daddy Judas]

There are only 2 living things I use little speak with, and that's animals and littles.