Any caregiver get intimidated by other caregivers?

[Bearly]

I'm a very gentle caregiver, but I'm a teddy bear and only have control when there are no big adults around. I'm also short in real life, and definitely not a little.

 

So, who else feels less big around other bigs? Especially if you aren't a switch.

Edited May 9, 2020 by Bearly

[Nymph]

The world doesn't revolve around you, I know this is usually used for someone selfish, but this phrase will usually also help people snap out of it if they care too much what other people think... nobody is watching you, nobody is judging you and if they are that is their problem.

 

If your height is such a big deal that you can't be yourself and get what you want, seek help from a therapist. You are feeling inadequate and that is not healthy.

[minty☆]

so, it's not exactly the same, but there was someone I had been talking to for a bit that would check/comment EVERY day about who had visited my profile lately, and who I was making friends with. It didn't matter how many times I told him I was just here to make friends and had no intention of entering a relationship. He made me SO uncomfortable @_@

 

everyone assumes littles to be the insecure ones, but tbh I think there are a lot of caregivers out there that are just the same, if not moreso. He was intimidated, but lashed out at me instead of admitting it to himself.

[Bearly]

It's reassuring to know there are insecure caretakers, in a way. Tbh I was just curious if other caretakers feel less dominant around some caretakers, and explained how I feel for context.

[Guest SpaceGhost]

So I'm not intimidated per se, but I am jealous and territorial. I don't feel less big, just on edge and aggressive. I'm a bulky guy, traditionally masculine, but have some type of similar insecurities that mostly stem from bad past experiences and just knowing how most people tend to be, especially online.

Honestly the best thing you can do is be up front about it, because then there's less room for issues when everything is on the table. You don't even have to frame it badly. Just say "Hey I'm a softer more caring dom, I'm not into all the hard stuff but I like x and y." Plus, a lot of girls like a soft dom/caregiver so you're fine. Try to quit caring what other people think and just know that there's someone out there for you.

Best of luck King

[Toby_Dino]

I’m not one to get intimidated, but I am one to get very very territorial when my single dom friends get to close to my little, or when other of my friends pick on my little I find it rude and disrespectful seeing as my little has trouble standing up for themself

[Guest Minister Judas]

Honestly I can't think of a time I've gotten intimidated by a CG. I tend to like other CGs most times.