Little and I recently broke up and she’s wants me to stay

[76will]

My little and I broke up recently and she’s been texting another daddy while we are still living together. I want to move back home for the month until she movies out in August but she’s telling me that this daddy is just because she can’t do it with me since we are broken up and that she needs that structure. But I can’t stand seeing or possibly hearing them talk to each other. She said she did it also because she was lonely when I left for nine days and it amplified her need for it. We are both taking this hard but trying to strive though. What I’m asking is do I stay for the month to make sure she’s okay? I also missed being with her while I was away and genuinely enjoy myself when we are together just hanging out. she said it’s like “asmr” to her and doesn’t mean anything serious when she texts him but it hurts me you know? Would I be a terrible ex dad if I leave my former little for the time until she moves?

 

TL;DR

Little and I broke up, she found a non serious online daddy( texts him) and wants me to stay with her for the month until she moves

[MissPattch]

If you are no longer a couple, its not really fair of her to ask you to still provide that "Daddy" role. Especially as she has been getting her needs by by another. In my opinion, and thats all this is, whether you move out now or in a month, its still gonna be hard and you're both gonna hurt. I personally couldn't be around, essentially, an ex partner while they are texting another in my presence but still expecting me to stick around to fulfil their needs. Wanting to move out until she has also moved doesn't make you "bad". You do need to examine your motives for wanting to leave and / or stay for the month, and decide which one serves you better. 

[SmolAetherr]

Move out, her needs are no longer your responsibility she found a daddy that quick and has pretty much replaced you while you are still in the fucking house, NO THANKS! Move out asap

[Little kaiya]

Honestly, you are no longer in a relationship so you don't owe her anything other than common human courtesy. It sounds like she cares more about herself and her needs than yours which is pretty selfish honestly. She doesn't seem to be considering the impact on you or your feelings so why should you go out of your way to do that for her.

 

Understanding and taking care of yourself after a break up doesn't make you a bad CG.

 

Honestly, she's already moved on so why should you be pressured to stay. Personally, I'd be leaving.

Edited July 6, 2020 by Little kaiya

[76will]

Thank you all for the advice, I’m going to leave and come back when she’s moving out.

[Littlenicole40]

I think that she’s just taking advantage of you, and he’s basically saying, “Hey - I know we broke up, but I still need you to do all the things I don’t deserve because I stepped outside of our relationship.  Oh, and you can still move out later too.”  I think it’s disrespectful to even ask to be honest.  

Edited July 8, 2020 by Littlenicole40