guidance/advice for new mommy

[Dark_overlord]

Hello, I'm Dark and I'm looking for advice.

 

So this may be weird but I first heard of ddlg when I was younger and I didn't think much of it. I found out about it from Wattpad which probably isn't too reliable unless its actually written by people in the lifestyle. Anyways I recently picked it up again and now have a better understanding of it. With that understanding came the questions. 

 

I thought about some tendencies that I had that sounded like I could potentially be a little but after a little more thought and consideration I realized that wasn't the case. Instead of being taken care, the thought of taking care and having someone rely on me makes me feel all giddy inside. I wouldn't mind someone calling me mommy and being able to shower a little prince/princess in love and affection sounds magical.

 

I hope I'm making sense here. I just realized I felt like this about 2 weeks ago so I'm pretty nervous and anxious. What I'm trying to say is, could anyone give me some general advice?

[DaddyDom3238]

Hi Dark, 

Reaching out on this forum is a great start for you, I have been in the lifestyle now for 20 years and I would recommend not to "overthink" what your role is in the lifestyle as that will only lead to more anxiety in my opinion. Whatever "role" you are is ultimately not something that you choose, rather it is who you are and you should embrace that. Based upon how you describe the idea of caring for someone it seems as though that is your natural inclination. 

If you have any specific questions please feel free to reach out.