New and very anxious

[Daddysslut]

I'm having a lot of anxiety about this. I'm very new. I've never had a care giver. I do know this is of my interest by all means. I enjoy Binky's, bottles, sippys, coloring, swinging at the park.. things like that and many more. I just want to do them with my daddy. But I'm afraid to be the one to make the move. How do I go about finding a cg as a very fresh little?

 

[Guest Daddylyfe]

Keep posting and let people see what you are like, or adding more to your personal is always a good option. CGs have a hard time figuring out who to message when we don't really know much about people. 

I wouldn't be anxious though, we're all very nice here. Since the changes to the website at least for me I usually wait a bit to see what people are like. I don't know what the old format did, but I feel like it worked well in the aspect of getting littles to engage more through the forum and personals. 

You're new, so it's ok to be nervous. Just be yourself. 

[ZenDaddy]

Knowing what you want is a very important element to finding and attracting to you what you want

3 hours ago, Daddysslut said:

I've never had a care giver. I do know this is of my interest by all means.

But perhaps the most important step to finding what you want and deserve, is EXACTLY what you've done here tonight, by putting the word out.  Daddylyfe made a very valuable point, and that's helping any prospective Daddys / Caregivers know as much about you as you feel comfortable in sharing.. but the more information definitely is helpful.  The other is, be a familiar face.. post or respond to other posts as often as you can.  Beyond that, please take your time.. allow things to evolve with whomever you may meet naturally, and always ALWAYS listen to your 'Voice' should it tell you to be careful, or maybe even 'This person makes me feel unsafe'.  There are some absolutely incredible hearts and souls here, both Daddys and Littles.. but nothing beats your Little Inner Voice when meeting new prospective CG's or Daddys.  I, and many of us wish you the Best of luck in finding all you hope to find here, and making tons of new friends.  😉🌹

[Sloth Fairy]

My advice is based on my experience on these sites:

Read the Safety First Topic. 

Don't let anyone pressure you into doing something you don't want to do. 

Stick around and learn everything you can about the dynamic.

Try to narrow down what you want from a caregiver.

Don't rush into anything. 

Your little side is valid and precious and should be treated as such. You as a person are valid and precious and should be treated as such. 

 

 

[Daddysslut]

I appreciate all the kindness. And I truly have taken something from each of you. I feel I may have been pressuring myself as to how to do this right. But with patience and honesty I feel I'll find what I'm searching for. I truly am grateful for this forum. 

[DaddyDom3238]

Do not feel pressure, be yourself and there is no "right way to do this." What is right for one is not right for another and as long as you are happy, cared for, safe, and you feel trust and love then you are in the right place for yourself. 

With that being said, be cautious always and if something doesn't feel right confront it head on

Tyler