Resources for figuring out if I'm Little?

[Marie72]

Hi! I'm new here (and if this isn't the right place for this question let me know!) and I'm trying to figure out if I am a Little.

Brief background, I didn't think this was something that I wanted for a long time because I had a very limited understanding of what this kink was and thought it was only adult babies/very young children, which is not something I'm personally interested in. 

Recently I've been involved in a fandom where DD/lg fics are very popular (and I understand that any particular fic is not necessarily an accurate representation) and in reading them have started to wonder if this is actually something I'm in to. 

I've read a few different discussion threads on here and learned about Middles which I think I might be, and I saw the thread about not everyone experiencing age regression (which I don't) and am just trying to figure myself out 😀

I know that everyone is different and there isn't one way of doing things, but are there resources/reading/ anything else that you recommend I look at while I try and figure this out? 

Thank you! 

[suzi got ink]

Hi, knowing yourself and your kinks takes time but exploring your understanding in a community is a great move! Everyone's kinks are unique so take your time and enjoy the journey of discovery.  I'm an experienced mommy domme and if you'd like to chat about absolutely anything just shout. 👍

[Guest Daddylyfe]

1 hour ago, suzi got ink said:

Hi, knowing yourself and your kinks takes time but exploring your understanding in a community is a great move! Everyone's kinks are unique so take your time and enjoy the journey of discovery.  I'm an experienced mommy domme and if you'd like to chat about absolutely anything just shout. 👍

I was going to say something similar, but was debating. Being a DD I don't know much personally, but from how people make it seem it's something you usually just know intrinsically, or something you experience and then it hits you. Those are just the experiences I've heard. I've been a DD for 12 years though, so I'd say I have a solid statistical sample.  I think I'v only met one person who was in your situation and said it wasn't for them after a more extended time, and that's totally fine. But if you feel good thinking about it, or if you have an experience and like it that's good too. I get there's a social taboo about it, and that the internet can be mean about it sometimes... But here we're all nice and friendly! 

Anyways take your time, lurk if you have to- but if you feel comfortable you should engage with people on here because it's probably the most safe posting here and using the chatroom. 

Edited October 9, 2022 by Daddylyfe

[Sloth Fairy]

Honestly,  just stick around and read the different posts on here. Everyone experiences things different. Everyone is into different things. And you're right there isn't one way. People here are pretty awesome so don't be afraid to ask questions. It's been about three years all together since I discovered ddlg. I started out thinking I was more of a middle but as time went on I delved a little deeper and discovered I was a little also. I learn something new about myself all the time. 

[Guest]

Hello ^-^ I would recommend exploring different forums here but there are quite a few starter videos to give a brief explanation

Evie Lupine
DDLG & CGL vs. Ageplay
https://youtu.be/UGB5D8mi7kk

Evie Lupine
DDLG and Ageplay: Activities, Scenes, Roles and Dynamics
https://youtu.be/SrKdMHHFErM

Evie Lupine
Can You Have a Daddy / girl Relationship Without BDSM?
https://youtu.be/pcTrfpiT5Ys


Evie Lupine
Middles in BDSM [DDLG vs. DDMG]
https://youtu.be/FCFESvHuFNY


Evie Lupine
BDSM 101: DDLG, Ageplay, ABDL, Diaper Kink and Daddy Kink
https://youtu.be/9T7Ch3ofEMg


Evie Lupine
DDLG Vs. Petplay
https://youtu.be/vsOAZNmgX1E

[Marie72]

44 minutes ago, Alana_Lala said:

Hello ^-^ I would recommend exploring different forums here but there are quite a few starter videos to give a brief explanation

 

Thank you! I'll go check these out! 

[Lolitadisney]

Hi!!

Have you done this test: https://bdsmtest.org/select-mode  ??

It's a good way to discover all your kinks

I'm gonna ask you a quick question that has just come to my mind.

If you were actually a middle: what would you do and what would you like to do or learn as a middle?

(maybe questions like that may help you)

Btw, could you tell please which fandom was that? (I'm just curious) *_*

P.S: I love Evie Lupine channel too. She explains everything in a perfect way! Her content is really interesting!

[Marie72]

8 hours ago, Lolitadisney said:

Hi!!

Have you done this test: https://bdsmtest.org/select-mode  ??

It's a good way to discover all your kinks

I'm gonna ask you a quick question that has just come to my mind.

If you were actually a middle: what would you do and what would you like to do or learn as a middle?

(maybe questions like that may help you)

Btw, could you tell please which fandom was that? (I'm just curious) *_*

P.S: I love Evie Lupine channel too. She explains everything in a perfect way! Her content is really interesting!

Thank you for these thoughts! I have taken the test, although it's been a bit so I should take it again! 

That's a great question to think about! 

The fandom is the Shadow and Bone Netflix show, specifically Darklina 

[Lolitadisney]

6 hours ago, Marie72 said:

Thank you for these thoughts! I have taken the test, although it's been a bit so I should take it again! 

That's a great question to think about! 

The fandom is the Shadow and Bone Netflix show, specifically Darklina 

I have not watched that series yet but I'll watch it ASAP.

Btw, I've just discovered a youtube channel which talks about being a Middle. Maybe you find it interesting  

 

[Marie72]

4 hours ago, Lolitadisney said:

I have not watched that series yet but I'll watch it ASAP.

Btw, I've just discovered a youtube channel which talks about being a Middle. Maybe you find it interesting  

Oh thanks! I'll check it out!

(If you like the show and want to talk about it in always down for that!)