What do you miss about having a little/s type?

[MissNMTX]

There's a recent thread here somewhere... I can't find it asking what what all of us who don't have a CG, or D type miss not having one. I was happy to answer, it's easy for me to say what I miss most. Since, I'm always curious, it got me wondering. To all the various D types currently without an s type do you miss us too? What do you miss the most? 

[Guest Xenophon]

I'm interested to hear others, but for me I think the thing I miss most is a certain sense of meaning. When I have a little, I feel so much more responsible, for her happiness and wellbeing but also for my own. I find myself feeling more assured, less anxious, and sort of at peace in the knowledge that someone is trusting me to provide structure.

[beanbean]

i think what i miss the most is being trully needed seeing the good i caused how i could make someone feel safe with out even being there it is amazing