How to safely punish your little while pregnant?

[jasperthesnail]

My daddy/caregiver/handler is trying to figure out how he can punish me safely cause I am pregnant with our first baby. He doesn't want to do anything to hurt our daughter while she's still inside of me currently. I honestly could use some advice on this subject cause it's bothering him a lot. He wants to physically punish me but he is just trying to be careful. I'd deeply appreciate any suggestions. 

[Erasmeus71]

Time outs. Early bedtimes. Writing lines. Standing in a corner. Wearing a diaper instead of regular big girl panties. No hitting. Take away stuffy. No pacifier. Taking away maybe other privileges that you would enjoy. Think about how your parents would treat you as a kid if you did stuff wrong. I know they would not want to hurt an unborn child. At least most people are like that. Otherwise, that child should be taken away by Children's protective services.

 

Edited January 28, 2023 by Erasmeus71
misspellings and wrong place.

[Nymph]

Like Eras suggested, you could just avoid physical all together but there is plenty to choose from that is safe. Anything far from your tummy that will not risk shaking you or making you fall should be fine.

1. hit your hands with a ruler
2. slap your face or your thighs
3. pinching your arms/legs
4. pulling your ear or your hair
5. biting
6. flicking
7. make you hold books while sitting with arms extended
8. anal beads/plug
9. cuffs
10. wax

[Erasmeus71]

7 hours ago, Nymph said:

Like Eras suggested, you could just avoid physical all together but there is plenty to choose from that is safe. Anything far from your tummy that will not risk shaking you or making you fall should be fine.

1. hit your hands with a ruler
2. slap your face or your thighs
3. pinching your arms/legs
4. pulling your ear or your hair
5. biting
6. flicking
7. make you hold books while sitting with arms extended
8. anal beads/plug
9. cuffs
10. wax

Trigger Warning

Nymph my problem is I had a Grandfather that was abusive to family. He abused my Grandmother. My father was put into a coma at age of 12. Came out a epileptic for life. He abused my Uncle and Aunts too. So I kind of disagree with hitting face. . Biting . Both are considered abuse. I am not that big on butt plugs myself but everyone is different.

[shadowrider]

Personally I would think more along the lines of less hands on or impact but still physical.  

• Kneeling in the corner
• Kneeling on a handful of rice
• Wartenberg wheel
• Clothespins make a good zipper. If you aren't familiar search bdsm clothespin zipper
• Nipple clamps, being pregnant these might be extra effective
• Kneeler spikes, these would definitely get a point across
• Spiked nipple pads that are meant to be sewn into a bra

There are tons of ways to physically punish someone without laying a hand or paddle on them.

[Nymph]

2 hours ago, Erasmeus71 said:

Trigger Warning

Nymph my problem is I had a Grandfather that was abusive to family. He abused my Grandmother. My father was put into a coma at age of 12. Came out a epileptic for life. He abused my Uncle and Aunts too. So I kind of disagree with hitting face. . Biting . Both are considered abuse. I am not that big on butt plugs myself but everyone is different.

Well, you are not the one that asked so my answer shouldn't matter to you. Plenty of people enjoy things consensually that are considered abuse (calling someone a dirty slut is verbal abuse, spanking is physical abuse, etc).

To me it sounded like her daddy is sadistic and she is a masochist, hence my ideas as a woman who has been through pregnancy. My priority would be "don't shake the baby" and "don't fall".

[beanbean]

like these smart people said  lines or timeouts or a wap too the knuckles plenty of ways to go and be safe