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Guest Crybunbun
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So i am a Middle ( Little Age from 5 up to 16 ) and like to regress as a teen.
There are many cool sides about that ; fun things and such !
But i also regress - the teen years - that i also have mood-swings and see them as 'puberty-problems'; haha
i also have mixed feelings about nsfw-topics
and then its sometimes soooo hard to get out of middle-space - like a lil brat in me saying: nope, dont wanna adult now !

anyone else feels the same ?
any tips how my dada can deal with such things ?

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I get you! I'm a middle too. Sometimes I feel a lil extra bratty in middlespace. I also get having mixed feelings on nsfw stuff. 
I'm afraid I don't have a lot of advice to give on how to deal with these things. I have a Daddy but I'm more of an independent little/middle. I just try and be extra patient when my middle side feels bratty or doesn't want to go away. I play a game where I just pretend I'm a big girl and I'm a spy lol! 
Sorry I'm not more help, but I just wanted to let you know you aren't alone! 

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I think the brat thing and not being able adult just shows you haven't had your fill, your daddy needs to be more firm and punish you to "snap you out of it" if that makes sense.

I don't regress but I do have my bratty moments and that always helps, sometimes it's just playful bratty and it goes away on it's own after a bit of attention, but when I get stubborn it usually is because I need discipline. You may need to experiment with different punishments to see what works best for you, some stuff you might find that you enjoy so it's more of a "funishment" and won't really work.

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I'm a middle, but I don't regress so I also can't really help in that regard. Your range is also bigger than mine. I will agree with @Nymphhowever, that  stubborn brattiness is usually really a desire for attention or discipline. Also, this might seem a bit TMI, but have you tracked to see if it parallels with your hormones? I know for me personally, there are times when I'm extra sad, stubborn or cranky and...sure enough.

There are a couple of different tracks you can take with this. If it's possible, I think it's fine to just let you be in your space for a bit longer. You will come out of it on your own. Or as was said, you can always talk to your daddy about ways to work more attention and or discipline into the time.

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I can relate. My ages are 5 as a little and 11 or 12 as a middle. I think I'm more vulnerable and easily hurt, and I am definitely sillier and very playful in middlespace. I do find the NSFW aspect to be a bit difficult to navigate because I'm discovering middlespace is a somewhat sexual space but non-sexual also. 

Edited by Sloth Fairy
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Age regression has helped me de-stress and I find I can handle more responsibility by doing it. But it is sometimes hard to come back and be an adult when it's time. It's great to not focus on adult responsibilities for awhile and it's temping to procrastinate and avoid problems by staying in a smaller headspace. If I'm having trouble leaving the headspace, it's a sign I need to take some time off because I'm starting to burn out.

I don't have anyone to help me, but what I do is a combination of strictness and encouragement. A reminder that no one is going to do the things I need to do for me, and that I am both strong enough and capable. Also, if the timing is wrong but I need to be little for longer, I remind myself that I can come back later after taking care of the things I need to do.

Guest Crybunbun
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thank you all for your tips and advises !! They'll help me alot. And i will talk to my dada about it ~
Its calming to see, others can relate and i am not alone with it. ❤️

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