I think I'm in trouble

[littledreamer20]

So sometimes I forget to eat and my daddy gets upset about that.Well yesterday  I only ate ice cream. I was busy and just forgot to eat but when I was hungry I just had ice cream bc it was late and I didn't want to go out ana buy food. When he found out he said he would deal with that this weekend when I go with him (we live an hour apart so I spend ever weekend with him) Whenever he says “he will deal with it later” it means I'm getting a spanking. What can I do? His spankings are so painful. I don't purposely not listen and refuse to eat; it's just I get busy and forget

[LeftyGuitar]

You should talk to him about it. If his spankings are very painful then you should let him know. That way he won't spank as hard, or other forms of punishment could be used. Communication is key here.

[Cebakes]

Just curious why you only ate ice cream all day? Do you do that often? Forgetting to eat obviously isn’t healthy.  If the spankings are painful and you don’t enjoy them, you need to tell him that the two of you need to find another “punishment”. 

[littledreamer20]

7 hours ago, Cebakes said:

Just curious why you only ate ice cream all day? Do you do that often? Forgetting to eat obviously isn’t healthy.  If the spankings are painful and you don’t enjoy them, you need to tell him that the two of you need to find another “punishment”. 

I don’t do that often. It was just late and I didn’t have anything else unless I went out and bought food. I know it’s a  punishment and I’m not supposed to enjoy it but still I hate his spankings

[MissNMTX]

I don't think there's anyway to avoid it. We all know that rules are for our own good and punishment is a natural consequences of breaking those rules. Eating is pretty basic and essential to your health and wellbeing. For me, if I didn't eat all day(knowing it was a rule) and then didn't get corrected I'd be very disappointed in my daddy. Thinking he has no respect for our own rules (you both should have agreed to the rules to start).

Punishment is meant to be punishment to correct behavior. If the spankings are too painful you have to say so. Otherwise, it'll be harmful to both correction and communication in the future.

Edited February 8, 2023 by MissNMTX

[littledreamer20]

20 minutes ago, MissNMTX said:

I don't think there's anyway to avoid it. We all know that rules are for our own good and punishment is a natural consequences of breaking those rules. Eating is pretty basic and essential to your health and wellbeing. For me, if I didn't eat all day(knowing it was a rule) and then didn't get corrected I'd be very disappointed in my daddy. Thinking he has no respect for our own rules (you both should have agreed to the rules to start).

Punishment is meant to be punishment to correct behavior. If the spankings are too painful you have to say so. Otherwise, it'll be harmful to both correction and communication in the future.

You are right. And the rules were agreed upon when we first started out relationship months ago. I just never know how to prepare myself for it 

[Vampiress]

As far as the punishment goes, it's up to you to decide if this is something you want to continue consenting to or not. You're allowed to draw the line and the boundaries, and if you really do hate them and don't want it anymore he should respect that. He can always be creative and find other ways to punish you that don't cause physical pain.

For the eating issue, you need to find a way to establish this more into your routine. Perhaps set reminders in your phone at regular intervals so that if you decide to skip one of those reminders there will be additional reminders to keep telling you to eat until you finally do. At that point you will no longer have an excuse. You could also try to make this rewarding. If you are a gamer or like "reward" you could try Habitica or SuperBetter. You can also look up "apps like Habitica" or "apps like SuperBetter" to see other alternatives. Or perhaps you can set a small reward at the end of the day if you ate, something you look forward to.

If I eat today, then I can.....

• watch the new episode of my tv show today.
• have that ice cream or some other dessert I have.
• play my video game tonight
• etc

[Erasmeus71]

As one that is looking for a little and Diabetes runs in family. Ice cream has loads of sugar. Just think about that! I would lecture you about that first. Spanking however would not be my first choice. Writing lines until hand hurts would be one. One thing he could do is make you take a picture of your meal each time a day. A healthy meal. Corner time won't work if your not there. Spanking. You repeat the rule. I will eat a healthy meal 3 times a day!

Edited February 9, 2023 by Erasmeus71

[beanbean]

did you agree to the rules and punishments before hand ? you could always talk to him and see if any other punishments could be done

[littledreamer20]

UPDATE!

We did talk about it and I did get a couple firm spanks but he had me right a page of lines “ice cream is not a meal” instead of only spanking me. Daddy did tell me that sometimes though I won’t be able to negotiate a not spanking because sometimes that’s what’s necessary for large offenses which I understand. He gave me a couple firm spanks to sting and said if I did it again it would be harder. Thanks you all the advice and comments!