idk lol

[honeybee7]

i’m not too sure what the purpose is of me writing this post… i just had a lot of rly big feelings and i just don’t want to feel so alone in these emotions i guess  today me and my friend went to the store and bought a bunch of arts and crafts so i made my D a bracelet with my nickname on it, and i was so so excited because i was gonna give it to him for valentine’s day. but then we were talking on the phone and i hinted at it, and he said that he would probably like it but only wear it for a few days. then i asked him why and he said he would most likely forget to wear it since he doesn’t like accessories. which is a perfectly logical reason but it made me really want to cry  i worked so hard on the bracelet and it broke my heart that he said he would forget to wear it. it was going to be one of the bigger gifts in his valentines box im putting together too, so i feel like it isn’t even worth to include anymore. if any other littles have anything to say i’d really appreciate it, or even any ideas for easy gifts i can make. i’ve already made some letters, got a few candies, a teddy bear, a ceramic gnome (inside joke), and then i was going to make his favorite cake.

glitter n hugs

- Bee

[Guest His_Little_Doll]

Oh noo! That would have hurt my feelings too 🥺 I'm so sorry you don't feel like your Daddy won't appreciate your gift. I think he will love it more than he thinks. And maybe you can just make it a keychain if he wants to wear it that way instead! 

I think it sounds like you're planning some amazing gifts and he'll love them!! 

[honeybee7]

13 minutes ago, His_Little_Doll said:

Oh noo! That would have hurt my feelings too 🥺 I'm so sorry you don't feel like your Daddy won't appreciate your gift. I think he will love it more than he thinks. And maybe you can just make it a keychain if he wants to wear it that way instead! 

I think it sounds like you're planning some amazing gifts and he'll love them!! 

thank you so much His Little Doll!! your words of encouragement offer a great comfort ❤️ i love the keychain idea! he always brings his keys everywhere and complains about losing them so i think the keychain will def help with finding them!

[Guest]

Aww I'm sorry! I can totally see why you would have hurt feelings.  One thing you might consider is that he did say he would wear it for a few days. And normally doesn't like accessories. So he's doing this for you😊 

Also, you spent all that work on something for him. He will/should appreciate all that you've done. And cherish it anyway. He might hang it from his mirror in the car or place it somewhere he can see it often. 

I'm in NO way saying your feelings aren't valid. Cause they most certainly are. But if you doing communicate and ask questions about what he likes and so forth, it will likely happen again.  I hope this helps! 😊

[Vampiress]

I have a couple of similar bracelets from a streamer who is a little, and I can't wear them all of the time because I just don't feel comfy wearing them in public. Instead I have put them on some smaller stuffies as a collar. Maybe if your Daddy has a little stuffie you can put it on that, or you can find one that is a suitable size and then the stuffie can always wear it and he will always have it with him in his room. I also like the keychain idea!

[shadowrider]

From a DD's perspective I understand your feelings and also know that it will mean the world to him so I would definitely send it.

 I can relate to not remembering to wear things. We take them off to shower or work in the yard and then forget. We shouldn't but we are human and forget things. In my experience it takes quite a while of wearing something daily before it is a natural act to make sure I have it before leaving home. I have been wearing my fitness tracker for several months and I still forget it occasionally. Also I'm not sure of their job but on my job things like accessories could be dangerous and also get messed up pretty quickly. And no one wants to scratch or break a special gift.

The keychain and stuffie collar ideas are awesome in my opinion. Also the mirror or shifter in the car so its right there reminding them of you.

[honeybee7]

On 2/10/2023 at 9:20 PM, Vampiress said:

I have a couple of similar bracelets from a streamer who is a little, and I can't wear them all of the time because I just don't feel comfy wearing them in public. Instead I have put them on some smaller stuffies as a collar. Maybe if your Daddy has a little stuffie you can put it on that, or you can find one that is a suitable size and then the stuffie can always wear it and he will always have it with him in his room. I also like the keychain idea!

Thank you so much Vampiress! I just got him a little teddy bear and i put it in the same box as his bracelet, so it’s perfect that u suggested his stuffie wearing it  plus i love the idea of his bear being collared!! ps i’m so honored that u replied to my post it’s like when a celebrity comments haha

[honeybee7]

6 hours ago, shadowrider said:

From a DD's perspective I understand your feelings and also know that it will mean the world to him so I would definitely send it.

 I can relate to not remembering to wear things. We take them off to shower or work in the yard and then forget. We shouldn't but we are human and forget things. In my experience it takes quite a while of wearing something daily before it is a natural act to make sure I have it before leaving home. I have been wearing my fitness tracker for several months and I still forget it occasionally. Also I'm not sure of their job but on my job things like accessories could be dangerous and also get messed up pretty quickly. And no one wants to scratch or break a special gift.

The keychain and stuffie collar ideas are awesome in my opinion. Also the mirror or shifter in the car so its right there reminding them of you.

thank you Shadowrider! i really appreciate ur explanation of how it’s not anything personal— def curbs my anxieties there. i suggested putting it in his car like u said since he’s a car guy n he immediately said he could put the bracelets on his shifter :)

[beanbean]

yeah as a DD . i might forget it from time time but everytime i thought of whoever made it for i would want to put it on .so it might not be as bad as you fear

[Vampiress]

19 hours ago, honeybee7 said:

Thank you so much Vampiress! I just got him a little teddy bear and i put it in the same box as his bracelet, so it’s perfect that u suggested his stuffie wearing it  plus i love the idea of his bear being collared!! ps i’m so honored that u replied to my post it’s like when a celebrity comments haha

I'm so glad you liked the suggestion! I'm sure it'll be just the cutest lil bear with its collar. Aww, aren't you the sweetest. I'm not that important, but that's so cute.