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[LuluRei]

Hello, I entered the ddlg community because I am looking for someone who would like to be my baby girl. After years of thinking, I kinda thought it would be easier to find someone okay with this kind of platonic relationship in the DDLG community but maybe I am wrong? Also I would rather everything being just online...

IDK, it's confusing... It's just that my copy mechanism is playing house and being the dad... But it is hard nowdays...

 

[Andriel_Isilien]

You're definitely not alone. There are littles that want strictly age regression, nonsexual ageplay, asexual, aromantic, and more with a platonic caregiver. It is possible, not as saturated maybe but definitely possible in this big wide world.

[Erasmeus71]

Well perhaps I am being either too selective or not saying enough details. You see I don't want to hurt the girls feelings. Platonic is find with me too. Only reason I would go with vibrator is for a certain reason. Wetting. It can go with the diaper also.

[LuluRei]

1 hour ago, gigisweetheart said:

I think you can find platonic littles for sure. Maybe it will take more time but it’s possible.

I know you said you’ve been through something very difficult so maybe in the meantime it would feel good to go to counselling or therapy? Just to have support while you’re looking for someone? Just an idea to help you feel safe and supported. 

Thank you for the concern, I've been to therapy and psychiatrist before... Right now I cant aford it to keep going since I changed contries. But as soon as I can I will.

Also, thank you again, I will wait.

[beanbean]

There are littles of all kinds you just have to put in the work to find the right one , I am sorry everything is rough for you right now here is hoping it gets better

[Taggy]

36 minutes ago, beanbean said:

There are littles of all kinds you just have to put in the work to find the right one , I am sorry everything is rough for you right now here is hoping it gets better

This is so true.

There are a lot of persons with a lot of preferences. The person I'm seeing already has 2 loving relationships. So she was very honest with me that she likes a fwb-playpartner setting, but doesn't want a romantic relationship. I also know people who just want to little without sexy stuff. They are there, just just have to keep looking and someday you'll find that one.