For any kind of relationship...

[Guest SnowMan_Baby]

I don't know if this has been posted before or not (couldn't find anything on this), but... I thought I would post my feelings and thoughts.

 

I know when people (any gender/ any sexuality) are single people are either lonely and looking or content with it.

But for those that are in a relationship at any point the biggest thing is communication. Without communication relationships fail, which leads to broken hearts, emotions and feelings being hurt (to varying degrees). Regardless of past experiences or what is going on in your life right now, if you enter a relationship with someone... there must be clear communication and to make sure both parties (or multiple parties, for those into poly relationships) understand each other clearly at the forefront. If you tell a person that you want a relationship with them and they want it too, then commit to it. Whether it's a physical intimate relationship or building to that point. If both parties want to try a relationship, PLEASE make sure you understand what that person needs and wants and talk about how often communication is needed for you (long distance relationships or in person relationships) ... everyone is different.  

When it comes to this community, I believe especially for the littles (and I could be wrong here, I don't speak for everyone) daily communication is a must or at least to have good reasons for day(s) with out communication. So all involved understand and can figure out if that is what they want and is ok with. 

 

*****SO I URGE AND PLEAD WITH EVERYONE WHO IS IN A RELATIONSHIP, MAKE SURE THAT YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER AND YOU ARE ON THE SAME PAGE. BECAUSE IF NOT, ONE OF THE PARTIES OR MULTIPLE PARTIES MIGHT MOVE ON AND THEN EMOTIONS AND FEELINGS AND MENTAL STATE ARE IN A STATUS OF PAIN AND HURT. SO PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE COMMUNICATE WITH THE ONE YOU'RE INVOLVED WITH. *****

 

*********NO ONE WANTS TO BE LEFT ALONE IN THE DARK WHEN IN A RELATIONSHIP!!!!!********