Feeling a bit lost..

[little disney geek]

Hi everyone,

Waves to all reading did doubt to send this message. Cause in way it feel breaking trust with my daddy. 

But i wonder  how it is with other... i recently got into a new DDlg dynamic. I havent been in one for while cause it ended badly and scared me off to get into a new one. This one can feel completly good and also bad.. 

My daddy is patient and sweet and understanding  but also can ignore me for ours sometimes even more then 7 ours.. and he mostly  said he then fell a sleep or work related..and then i just  have to wait till he respond  again.. while i try to not be to clingly and send out every smoke signal i know.... is it fair of me to ask him to just let know he will be unavaible... or is that wrong...

When is aroud he does make me feel so good so loved so cared  for... 

 

Thankiez for listening  all...❤️

[beanbean]

My advice is just tell your daddy how you feel and talk it out 

[Restraints-and-Cuffs]

Hey there,

 

Sit down and have a chat with your daddy and tell him exactly what you need from him. Sometimes people take some things for granted because they do not know how important it is for the other person. Be clear and outline your expectations so he knows.

[Cebakes]

As mentioned above, I would discuss this with your daddy.  How was your last daddy with communication?  Does that impact you today in anyway? 

[Little kaiya]

Have an adult to adult conversation about your feelings and expectations for both of you. Although the DDlg dynamic is based on an "adult/little" interaction both partners are adults and there still needs to be adult communication for things to work.

[LittleDutchPrincess]

As everyone said, just talk. I can imagine that it’s not nice to wait a long time for a response. Sometimes I also have to wait hours to get a response from my daddy. Most of the time max 2 or 3 hours. But we both got our jobs and know that it comes with responsibilities. 

That being said, it’s also important that you don’t feel bad all the time when you’re not with him. So tell him how you feel and maybe you can discuss what he can do for you besides texting. Maybe you can use a code when it’s important or something. When I call my daddy and he is not picking up (doesn’t happen often because I only call if I know it’s a good moment. Or I think it could be) I always send a text after it. Something like “I just wanted to hear your voice” or “I really need you daddy”. When he is busy, he knows why I am calling. 
 

It’s nice for your daddy to know he is important for you so don’t worry.

[little disney geek]

First of all i wanna say how much i appreciate  this site this forum  amd the group  of people on here..

Thanks everyone for taking time to read and give advice..

We talked  this afternoon and he had no idea it was trigger for me from  past  things.. 

He told he always want to know these things even if they are little and was happy i opened up.. wich i dont do easy.. we came up with a way  that if he isnt available  or passed out by sleep i feel  better.. and he told me he will try to watch it better to let know..

 😍

Sp again  thanks

Edited January 21, 2024 by little disney geek