Finding where I belong

[MissAnna]

Have you ever daydreamed about your happily forever after? You dream of the way your life will look and how your fairy tale ends. 

I do a lot, I dream about where my life will take me, who my forever will be and how my fairy tale will end. 

I wonder if any Mommy's or Daddy's feel this way? What about you littles? Do you all daydream about actually finding where you belong?

I do a lot and sometimes I wonder if it will really come true or am I throwing pennies in a dry wishing well?

I love watching movies where the couple finally find one another, but then it makes me a little sad. Does this ever happen to anyone else? 

Sometimes at night I sit on my front porch look up at the stars and close my eyes, then I make my wish. A simple wish of finding my happily ever after, it seems silly but it's what I wish for.

And when I see a wishing fountain, I love grabbing a penny kissing the back of it, then tossing it into the water. My heart will leap for joy thinking maybe just maybe my wish might come true. 

I know it's silly and absurd really, but I just want someone who actually wants me. Someone who doesn't care if I'm loud, or talk to much and doesn't mind my weird obsession with gummy bears or dots lol. 

I want to find where I belong, just like all of you.

Sorry for my rant, but it's nice just to say what's on my mind. You all are so amazing and I'm so proud of all of you. Thank you for being my friend.

Until we meet again remember you matter, you are loved and you are worthy of being loved 💓 💕💖💝

[LittleBiscut]

Just want to say your a lovely person and deserve happiness ❤️🥹

[MissAnna]

@LittleBiscut thank you for your sweet kind words. Never forget you matter, you are loved and you are worthy of being loved ❤️ 

[LittleBiscut]

@MommyDom41

Just want to say that i needed to hear that thank you ❤️ 

[MissAnna]

@LittleBiscut you aren't alone sunshine 

[Andriel_Isilien]

Absolutely 💯 🥺 I daydream a lot, too much actually. Keep putting out that kindness and love  May it come back to you tenfold!

[karan]

I don't even know if I belong here... It is always good to read your posts thank you for posting as always ❤️

[.คℓ𝐞ﾒเᏰααα .ᐟ]

I'm so tired of being spoon fed the fairy tale life. Certain groups of people and media do this because they're unhappy with and can't accept the truth. Not only is that mindset boring, it's dangerous. Fairy tales aren't real life.

What I want, is a life that's peppered with experiences. And I want those experiences to teach me things about myself, the people and world around me, as well as anything else I can learn. That doesn't mean I want all negative experiences. I want balance of good and the bad and even some gray areas too.

I don't want to become a Disney Princess and live happily ever after. She's only happy after getting married. I want to be a Disney Villain with a redemption arc. Because I don't believe marriage solves all problems like the Princesses always claim. But at least as a Villain, I can experience all sorts of emotions and plot twists in life.

Disney Villains are never truely idle, but at least one Princess had to be woken up by a strange man's advances. 

Alternative comment;

If my fairy tale ending is written by a German author, I'll gladly take that any day.

Edited May 27 by .คℓ𝐞ﾒเᏰααα .ᐟ

[beanbean]

On 3/9/2025 at 11:27 AM, MissAnna said:

Have you ever daydreamed about your happily forever after? You dream of the way your life will look and how your fairy tale ends. 

I do a lot, I dream about where my life will take me, who my forever will be and how my fairy tale will end. 

I wonder if any Mommy's or Daddy's feel this way? What about you littles? Do you all daydream about actually finding where you belong?

I do a lot and sometimes I wonder if it will really come true or am I throwing pennies in a dry wishing well?

I love watching movies where the couple finally find one another, but then it makes me a little sad. Does this ever happen to anyone else? 

Sometimes at night I sit on my front porch look up at the stars and close my eyes, then I make my wish. A simple wish of finding my happily ever after, it seems silly but it's what I wish for.

And when I see a wishing fountain, I love grabbing a penny kissing the back of it, then tossing it into the water. My heart will leap for joy thinking maybe just maybe my wish might come true. 

I know it's silly and absurd really, but I just want someone who actually wants me. Someone who doesn't care if I'm loud, or talk to much and doesn't mind my weird obsession with gummy bears or dots lol. 

I want to find where I belong, just like all of you.

Sorry for my rant, but it's nice just to say what's on my mind. You all are so amazing and I'm so proud of all of you. Thank you for being my friend.

Until we meet again remember you matter, you are loved and you are worthy of being loved 💓 💕💖💝

I mean it’s good to have a dream but it’s also a good thing to have your feet on the the ground and be able to be content and what you have even if it’s not the the dream , don’t be miserable waiting for the dream try to make the best of what ever

[-Soul-]

it’s not a rant at all. It's honest, and honestly? Beautiful. There’s something really special about someone who can still believe in wishes, fairy tales, and starlit hopes. That’s not silly. That’s strength wrapped in softness.

I think a lot of us.. Mommies, Daddies, and Littles alike.. daydream about that happily ever after. And while some may see it as wishful thinking or unrealistic, I see it as something powerful. That dream you hold onto? It's a compass. It keeps your heart open, your soul searching, and your spirit alive. That’s not throwing pennies into a dry wishing well!! that’s planting seeds of hope in the universe and trusting the right ones will grow.

In a world where it’s easy to be negative, your words shine. It’s refreshing heck it’s healing even! to see someone so bright, so full of belief in something more. You don’t just dream for yourself; you become a beacon for others who forgot how.

You’re not alone in those porch-staring, star-wishing moments. I’ve had a few of those myself. And I believe that what you’re looking for, that place to belong, that feeling of being truly seen, isn’t just possible. It’s real. And some of us were quietly wishing for you all along.

So keep wishing. Keep dreaming. Keep being unapologetically you. The right people will see that light and be drawn to it like magic. Your fairy tale is still being written, and I have a feeling the best chapters are just around the corner.

Proud of you 💙

[Lil_K47]

I have quite a vivid imagination! I’m a hopeless romantic ( to be blamed on my mother for sharing her love of romance novels with me!)

 

I believe There’s a happily ever after waiting out there for everyone! It finds you when you least expect it! 
 

When I was little I wished on a star every night, and never stopped believing anything is possible as there are so many unexplained things in this world! 
 

I have a hard time falling asleep, and  sometimes when I let Just let go and  let myself indulge in fantasies? Dreaming  myself into the role of the main character in my favorite romances or somehow adding myself into the story as a supporting character, well those are the mornings I wake up the most refreshed and excited to start the day! 
 

No matter what dynamic you’re in or imagine yourself having I think we all want that one universal thing. To be loved unconditionally! To find our person! The  one  who just sings to your soul, who truly gets you and loves all of your quirks! Because that’s what makes you you!

 

i truly believe you get back from the universe what you put out into it! Doing on to others as you’d have done yo you, Which is why to this day if I see a penny on the ground and it’s heads down, I’ll stop dnd flip it over for someone else to find! 
 

And I think it’s truly the little things you do daily to show someone you just care, to let them know your thinking of them, are the things they will most appreciate! It doesn’t take over the top grand jesters to show someone you care and appreciate them!

 

Try not to think of it as looking for your  end game,  I don’t  think the fairytale has to have an ending at all!  because every day we’re growing and evolving, and our needs and wants are constantly changing and evolving with us! And with my imagination, when the prince finds  Cinderella and puts  that shoe on her foot, well the story doesn’t stop there for me, because I can imagine 20 more scenarios after that of how they’ve lived their lives! And what  their children and grandchildren are doing! lol 
 

I think everyone that comes in and out of our lives, whether it’s for five minutes or five years, there was a purpose for it! You know, I wouldn’t change any of it, the good or the bad because all of those experiences one by one, layer by layer have molded and shaped me into who I am  today! And  Most days I think I’m pretty OK 😉

 
So keep dreaming big! keep wishing on every star! throw every penny you find! Make a wish on every birthday cake! Blow every fallen eyelash into the wind, make a wish on every dandelion you blow on! All these things continue to give us hope and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that!

 

Keep dancing to the tune in your head like no one is watching! Let go and enjoy the ride! 😘

 

 

 

 

[Little kaiya]

I don't tend to daydream as I'd rather actively be doing. If there's something I want then I go get it. Does that mean I get anything I want, absolutely not BUT it does mean I do everything I can to get as close as I can. I can either dream it or do it, personally I'd rather grab experiences by the horns, do it and see where that leads me.

[HisLittlePotato]

Your post has got me thinking about things @MissAnna.    I'm a daydreamer, there's no doubt about that, but I'm also super lucky to have found my happy ending.  I have an amazing partner and Daddy.  I live in the perfect home.  I have the sweetest puppy.  Those are things I wished and waited a long, long time for.  Looking back I see there were other choices I could have made, and may have been equally happy, but I don't regret the choices I made and where I am today.  Now my dreams and wishes look different as I find new things to aspire to and work towards.  Your post has actually been a good reminder for me to take a look at what I currently dream about and wish for...

[MissAnna]

Thank you all for you responses, when I wrote this in early March I didn't know who I was or were I belonged. I had met @-Soul- but we were not together yet, we had just started talking as friends.

Did I make this post because I hated my life? No, I actually have a beautiful life, I have an amazing daughter, a beautiful farm, a wonderful job and great friends.

No I wrote this post because I was struggling so deeply with being a Dom and honestly wanted to just be myself.  I felt as if I were living a lie, because I wasn't a little but I also wasn't a Dom so who was I? I felt caught in between a rock and a hard place, but Soul helped me see who I truly am and who I was meant to be. 

So yes I was daydreaming, day dreaming about having a daddy. How that would feel, and would he ever accept me? I wanted the Disney tell fairytale ending, and I got it but in the Brave style which is a favorite Disney movie.

I loved all your comments, with every walk in life our wishes and dreams will change. Back then I dreamed of being accepted as submissive and not have to pretend to be a Dom. 

if you would have told me when I first joined this site that I would be accepted for who I truly am I would have thought no way, you are lying. No one has ever allowed me to be me, but now I see how wrong I truly was. 

So yes keep day dreaming, keep living your best life, and keep reaching for the stars. 

[boopsuperjuice]

Not a day goes bye were I don't daydream about having a Daddy. I often use AI so I can pretend to have one ehehe

[Lil_angel_1]

Sometimes I wonder if my daydreaming is preventing me from finding someone. Like I’m building up the idea too much in my head that no one and no life will ever live up to. 

[Guest Chad]

6 minutes ago, Lil_angel_1 said:

Sometimes I wonder if my daydreaming is preventing me from finding someone. Like I’m building up the idea too much in my head that no one and no life will ever live up to. 

Sounds close to manifesting to me.

keep going, you never know 🤷

 

[Guest Chad]

My own stream of consciousness;

 

I’ve read through this a few times and many opinions and thoughts really resonate. The grounded, the practicable and the optimistic, they all have a place.

I have found myself reflecting much this past year In the turmoil’s and tribulations of a separation and pending divorce, my intent on being retrospective about life’s rhymes and reasons. Maybe some self flagellation and holding myself accountable.
 

Most of the time I review it, like I have reviewed the above thoughts, the streams of consciousness and opinions by thinking on ‘how’ we establish the guardrails for ourselves, individually;  how we set should Emotional, spiritual, intellectual, and physical boundaries, in terms of what we give away, what we accept and what we hold firm on. In order to find joy and fulfilment.  in my reflection and opinion, it’s Setting and holding boundaries to dreams, aspirations, how want to be treated, how we want to show up and how we want other to show up? 
I know gave mine away, and let them be eroded over time, being too willing to let others cross the boundaries in order to please! 

I think in my failure and Learnings, by being internally clearer on expectations, want and needs, it’s helps others with clarity on how to show up, understand the limits and non-negotiables.

ive been quiet strict with myself, asking ‘WHAT does Chad want’?
‘what is Chad asking for’?

‘What would Chad say to someone with fear of shame or ridicule about his desires, needs and dreams’? 
 

you get the point; own your space, own your boundaries and others will find it easier to play and respect. Making relationships stronger. 
 

I think? 
 

regards 

Chad