Am I Supposed to Worry about trying to be a better little?

[Ploy]

Hi! :3 I’m still fairly new to DDLG and age regression, and I’m learning more about myself as I go. Outside of being little, I’m always thinking about how I can be a better partner in general — and now I’m starting to wonder if I should also be focused on being a “better” little for my Daddy. Is that something I should be actively working on, or does it just come naturally over time?

 

Also, I tend to have more of a bratty personality, and I bring that into my little space too. Is that okay? Like… are there certain “rules” for how a little is supposed to act, or does it just depend on the dynamic? I’d really appreciate any thoughts or advice from other littles or caregivers!

[𝒟𝒾𝓋𝒾𝓃𝒾𝓉𝓊𝓈]

A dynamic takes time to develop, there is no book with rules that you must hold onto in order to call yourself a little or a daddy. It all depends on your dynamic with your daddy/dom and what works best and comfortably for you two. 
It is a good thing however to keep thinking about ways to be more caring for your partner depending on the situation you are in, it shows that he really means something to you. So in short, just attune to each other through time and experiment. 

Regards

~Div 

[.คℓ𝐞ﾒเᏰααα .ᐟ]

Hi hi! Welcome to the lifestyle~

There is no right or wrong way to be a Little! There are no rules to how a Little should act.

Some Littles enjoy pleasing their Daddies, but it's not a requirement to be a Little. When it comes to the more brattier dynamics, there are a lot of Daddies that don't like or can't handle this behavior. But that doesn't mean you can't be bratty! That just means you need to actively communicate about having a bratty side while in bigspace, to any potential partners.

Every dynamic is different, but time and communication are key at figuring them out. They will guide you through any relationship, in the same way it would for a regular relationship. 

[LunaLilac]

You are a unique individual, and because of that, being the best little you can be just means being yourself. Ultimately it's a relationship, and your partner should care more that you're being honest about yourself, and love you for it. Don't try to be anyone you're not or the relationship you're building won't be on a very solid foundation.

But it all comes down, to communicating with your partner, who you are, who they are, and who you are together.

[shadowrider]

 As said by the others, there is no 1 true way to be a little. In my opinion you have to figure out who you are and be true to that and nothing else. 

Bettering yourself should be done for yourself and your partner so kudos for always trying to be a better person. We all need to do that daily.

 If you are a brat some will like that and some will not, neither is right or wrong. I think a little bratty behavior shows spirit and can lead to punishments which is fine by me. 

 You have to be true to yourself and don't let anyone else define what that should look like. If they aren't ok with you being true to yourself then they aren't right for you. 

 And no one should try to dictate how you are as a little/middle/big or anything else. I've seen too many times where people try to play the trade game where I did "this" so you should do "that", that's not love it manipulation. I don't believe in bartering with someone I care about. You should do what you do out of love and not because you can then get what you want later.