pettylena Posted Monday at 01:44 PM Report Posted Monday at 01:44 PM Is this possible? I want to be taken care of and not have to make any decisions. Maybe it comes from being spoiled by my family my whole life. I’m very sweet and loving though 1
SweetLittleDreamer Posted Monday at 04:11 PM Report Posted Monday at 04:11 PM Every dynamic is different not a single 2 the same. Every dynamic is just as valid as the next. if you want to be in a 24/7 dynamic that is absolutely something you can seek to find. There are 24/7 dynamics out there, and other people wanting them to. Its just about finding the right person for you and having that conversation with them well keeping an open mind, because the version of a 24/7 dynamic you have in mind may (and most likely will) differ slightly to everyone else’s, so compromise is key. In any good DDlg relationship both people are getting there needs meet in some way. 2 1
Little kaiya Posted Monday at 06:47 PM Report Posted Monday at 06:47 PM It's certainly something that is out there but probably on the rarer side to be honest. Most people want to find a partner that will help contribute to the relationship and/or household so finding a partner who wants someone who makes zero decisions is likely to be a challenge. My own two cents, what you're describing is a risky dynamic. What happens if your partner becomes ill, has to go away for work for an extended period of time or passes away unexpectedly. How do you care for yourself if you havent had to make any decisions? The unexpected can happen sadly and at tye end of the day we are all adults, or we wouldn't be here, so making sure you still have the life skills you need an ability to care for yourself is also a very important consideration. 2 1 3
FallenApprentice Posted Monday at 08:13 PM Report Posted Monday at 08:13 PM 1 hour ago, Little kaiya said: It's certainly something that is out there but probably on the rarer side to be honest. Most people want to find a partner that will help contribute to the relationship and/or household so finding a partner who wants someone who makes zero decisions is likely to be a challenge. My own two cents, what you're describing is a risky dynamic. What happens if your partner becomes ill, has to go away for work for an extended period of time or passes away unexpectedly. How do you care for yourself if you havent had to make any decisions? The unexpected can happen sadly and at tye end of the day we are all adults, or we wouldn't be here, so making sure you still have the life skills you need an ability to care for yourself is also a very important consideration. Absolutely this. It could leave you vulnerable to an abusive dynamic/relationship as well. I'm not saying 24/7 dynamics aren't a thing, but they are on a rarer side.
LeftyGuitar Posted Monday at 08:34 PM Report Posted Monday at 08:34 PM Being little 24/7 is something that is possible. However it may not always be feasible. As others have said there could be some risks associated with it. You should at least know how to care for yourself and if you do end up in a 24/7 lifestyle, I'd say have a back-up as well, in case anything goes wrong. I think the best thing to do is to be prepared for anything that could happen. Also, it may sound fun at first, but depnding upon the dynamics and how little you are looking to be, it could get boring or mudane. I'm not saying its all bad, but as I said earlier be prepared for the unexpected.
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