Dilemma

[pettylena]

The guys I date and am attracted to are so sweet and loving and spoil me but they’re not super into ddlg //: the guys that are into are always guys I’m not remotely attracted to. So it’s like do i just accept that being little is something I’ll have to keep private and to myself ?

[beanbean]

59 minutes ago, pettylena said:

The guys I date and am attracted to are so sweet and loving and spoil me but they’re not super into ddlg //: the guys that are into are always guys I’m not remotely attracted to. So it’s like do i just accept that being little is something I’ll have to keep private and to myself ?

I don’t know give it time you might find both 

[Little Skittles]

1 hour ago, pettylena said:

The guys I date and am attracted to are so sweet and loving and spoil me but they’re not super into ddlg //: the guys that are into are always guys I’m not remotely attracted to. So it’s like do i just accept that being little is something I’ll have to keep private and to myself ?

"Abandoning your uniqueness is equivalent to dying." 

Bocchi the Rock 

[littlegala]

I was thinking the same thing yesterday. And maybe it’s rough now but it’ll get better and we’ll meet that right Daddy. Just keep hope in your heart and don’t deny yourself a love you deserve. 

[NR_Daddy]

I think that for people who are looking for their person, whether that be in the vanilla world or otherwise, you have to learn to be patient.

There is an old adage that still rings true to this day .... "You have to kiss many frogs to find your prince"

It also takes time and effort to find the right person and develop a relationship, and you should be prepared to accept that if you are looking for absolute perfection, it may be that that you might be holding out for something that doesn't exist and maybe you might need to consider more realistic options.

The most successful relationships I've seen, and ones that stand the test of time, are ones where compromise happens and your partner tolerates some of your traits despite not being so keen on them.