Older women.....

[Still looking]

Are there older women like myself that finally learn about themselves later in life? I'm 55 and definitely know that I am a middle/little but never knew it. Are there caregivers out there for us older ones? And how in the heck do I find them for my case? TIA

Edited June 17 by Still looking

[LeftyGuitar]

There are older littles on here. I'm in my mid almost late 30s now. I'm not sure what exactly counts as older, I guess anywhere from early 30s and beyond. You can always make a personal if you're looking for a CG. 

Edited June 17 by LeftyGuitar

[Little kaiya]

I'm 47 and found my Daddy seven years ago. Daddies that prefer a biologically older little are definitely out there. As to how to find them, same way you find any partner really. Get involved with discussions, meet people, see if you have things in common in addition to DDlg and go from there.

[littlegala]

There are guys that prefer older littles. Its all about personals and being active here. Be active in other social media too. Like Fetlife. They post munches you can go to and groups you can be a part of. They have personals there too. But just like any social media be careful. Take your time and vet them because a lot of guys want to pass as a Daddy. I hope this helps some. 

[Cebakes]

From personal anecdotal experience, yes there are absolutely older women out there that are into DDLG and men your age who would want to be your daddy.   I’ve always been very aggressive in keeping my eyes open to pursue women closer to my age who are into DDLG that I may come across.   I would urge all daddies to do the same.    
 

Unfortunately , DDLG is a very niche or small lifestyle-kink.  It becomes even smaller at our age.  FEELD is a new lifestyle-kink site that is pretty good.  Fet life is out there, but it is a little bit of a cesspool.  You should run a personal ad here. 

[Still looking]

8 hours ago, LeftyGuitar said:

There are older littles on here. I'm in my mid almost late 30s now. I'm not sure what exactly counts as older, I guess anywhere from early 30s and beyond. You can always make a personal if you're looking for a CG. 

Thanks! I just did. 

[Still looking]

8 hours ago, Little kaiya said:

I'm 47 and found my Daddy seven years ago. Daddies that prefer a biologically older little are definitely out there. As to how to find them, same way you find any partner really. Get involved with discussions, meet people, see if you have things in common in addition to DDlg and go from there.

 

7 hours ago, littlegala said:

There are guys that prefer older littles. Its all about personals and being active here. Be active in other social media too. Like Fetlife. They post munches you can go to and groups you can be a part of. They have personals there too. But just like any social media be careful. Take your time and vet them because a lot of guys want to pass as a Daddy. I hope this helps some. 

I tried Fetlife. Seems to be to hard-core of a site for me. I'm also an introvert and socially awkward with anxiety, so there's that. Lol

[Still looking]

2 hours ago, Cebakes said:

From personal anecdotal experience, yes there are absolutely older women out there that are into DDLG and men your age who would want to be your daddy.   I’ve always been very aggressive in keeping my eyes open to pursue women closer to my age who are into DDLG that I may come across.   I would urge all daddies to do the same.    
 

Unfortunately , DDLG is a very niche or small lifestyle-kink.  It becomes even smaller at our age.  FEELD is a new lifestyle-kink site that is pretty good.  Fet life is out there, but it is a little bit of a cesspool.  You should run a personal ad here. 

Thanks! I might give feeld a try. Never heard of it. I did just put up a personal here. I'm just glad to hear I'm not the only older female who's looking. That in itself is reassuring. Thanks again!

[beanbean]

They do exist like everyone else said and here’s hoping you find what your looking for

[Still looking]

10 minutes ago, beanbean said:

They do exist like everyone else said and here’s hoping you find what your looking for

Thanks!

[LilJeanie]

I am 54.  I met my Daddy about 10 years ago.  We're here!

[Still looking]

42 minutes ago, LilJeanie said:

I am 54.  I met my Daddy about 10 years ago.  We're here!

Yay! I'm so happy for you! I'll be waiting patiently. Well, at least trying to. Lol

[LilJeanie]

I'm currently struggling with finding other littles in my area for play dates or whatever.  But I am hopeful!  I know Fetlife can be problem, but really going to gatherings of like minded people is the way.  I had to go with a friend, 'cause I was scared.

[Plum]

There's definitely plenty of 30+ littles out there! I'm 33 myself! :3 My best friend is mid 40s, and she also only recently joined this world! So I know there's a lot of us out there haha! I'm good friends with a lot of older daddies who don't care about littles "being older" and stuff. It's the mindset and your heart that matters! ^^

I definitely feel like going to local events or munches is the best way to connect with people irl. I know that I was surprised when I started going a few years ago, there are a lot of different people of so many different ages! Fet can definitely be annoying sometimes, but using it as a glorified calendar of local events really helped me connect! If you're looking for online interactions, there's also always different discord servers and stuff too!

[Sicarie]

Im 43 and a middle/little with anxiety and social awkwardness lol. It does seem like the loudest ones in the community are searching for a younger little, but from my experience, there are Daddies out there who prefer an older little closer to their age. It's good you put up a personal to be visible and I would encourage as well to be active on the forum. 

There is another thread on here, I think in the little section, that is for older littles if you would like to see who all has posted there. There is also a club too. 

 

[MissNMTX]

I'm a middle and I turn a rather scary mid 40 ish number in just 10 days! We do exist and aren't as rare as you think. I must confess, finding an age appropriate partner can be tough....I haven't. Of course, finding the right partner is nearly impossible anyway, this is just one more layer.

Since you said you put up a personal....I haven't put one up in years. My only advice would be to go slowly, be careful and use the forum as a resource. Read, contribute, learn more about yourself. The great hope is that personal growth will lead us to the right person.

[Josey Wales]

1 hour ago, MissNMTX said:

I'm a middle and I turn a rather scary mid 40 ish number in just 10 days! We do exist and aren't as rare as you think. I must confess, finding an age appropriate partner can be tough....I haven't. Of course, finding the right partner is nearly impossible anyway, this is just one more layer.

Since you said you put up a personal....I haven't put one up in years. My only advice would be to go slowly, be careful and use the forum as a resource. Read, contribute, learn more about yourself. The great hope is that personal growth will lead us to the right person.

I couldn’t agree more with what you said or add anything else ! 

[NR_Daddy]

My experience is there doesn't seem to be many older littles putting themselves out there to be found. It's one thing posting a personal here that's going to be buried in all the others.

You have to bump it daily and be seen to be looking. Unfortunately most older littles don't seem to  be putting that effort into finding someone.

[DaddysMonkey]

I guess it depends on your perspective of “old”. I’m turning 32 this year but I still feel crazy young and I know several women in their 40’s and 50’s that also feel very young. 
 

When I hear the word “older” I can’t help but think of a granny for some reason 😂 I guess I consider myself mature but not old. 

[MissAnna]

On 6/16/2025 at 11:17 PM, Still looking said:

Are there older women like myself that finally learn about themselves later in life? I'm 55 and definitely know that I am a middle/little but never knew it. Are there caregivers out there for us older ones? And how in the heck do I find them for my case? TIA

You aren't alone, I'm in my 40s and had always been a Dom for many years up until recently when I met my partner Soul. Who helped me see I am more of a submissive/middle than a Dom. So yes there are a variety of ages on here, there are daddies and mommies who want middles your age, don't give up okay? It just takes time to find where you belong 

[MissNMTX]

@MissAnnathank you for your positive reinforcement and consistent encouragement.

[MissAnna]

12 minutes ago, MissNMTX said:

@MissAnnathank you for your positive reinforcement and consistent encouragement.

It's easy to be so uplifting when there are so many amazing people like yourself to get to know and call my friend 💝 

[Andriel_Isilien]

37 years old little here 🙌🏻 don't know how I made it this far 😅 I feel ready to be in my granny phase as I stay in more often to garden, craft, and love on my pets. Meeting people at munches are scary. I took the plunge 3 years ago and I'm so glad I did as I have made some awesome friends who are littles around my age and older! 

[Melisue]

I'm 47 and finally am ready to put myself out there. 😬 I'm a little nervous and overwhelmed but excited! 

[BabyPoppy]

I'm 4 and 5 🤭(45 years old), but I feel like I'm in my 20s yet. I'm a baby girl and super young as a little.  I live in an area that's very rural and very conservative, so my only way to really meet Caregivers or littles is online.  My first Daddy was a kinky, friends with benefits thing that occurred by happenstance 2 years ago and I've been hooked ever since. I prefer to stick to little friends and forum conversations now, but I've had a few Daddies and Caregivers who didn't mind my age. 

My closest friends are here on the forum and have become very dear to me. Sometimes it's more than just finding a Daddy or Caregiver, but finding a place to belong and be accepted.  

Have faith lady! You are not alone! We are here to support each other on this journey! ❤️