BabyPoppy Posted June 25 Report Posted June 25 1 minute ago, MissAnna said: Its because a girl at work doesn't like me and now work has deemed me to nice, to kind, to helpful and to bubbly. And they told me I needed to learn to talk less So all day today I didn't speak unless I was needed. It made me feel like being back in my childhood trauma. But it's okay because I have plenty of degrees under my belt and I am going to find a better job. The doctors I am working with our extremely upset with management for the way they are treating me. but you can't make everyone like you They have been treating me poorly since I have been diagnosed with MS I believe they are trying to get me to quit Definitively NOT ok!!!! 😡 1
BabyPoppy Posted June 25 Report Posted June 25 7 minutes ago, MissAnna said: I love trolls I'll watch trolls with you any time!❤️🥰 1
beanbean Posted June 26 Report Posted June 26 22 minutes ago, MissAnna said: Its because a girl at work doesn't like me and now work has deemed me to nice, to kind, to helpful and to bubbly. And they told me I needed to learn to talk less So all day today I didn't speak unless I was needed. It made me feel like being back in my childhood trauma. But it's okay because I have plenty of degrees under my belt and I am going to find a better job. The doctors I am working with our extremely upset with management for the way they are treating me. but you can't make everyone like you They have been treating me poorly since I have been diagnosed with MS I believe they are trying to get me to quit Whoa that’s crazy and no cool at all 1
MissAnna Posted June 26 Author Report Posted June 26 6 minutes ago, beanbean said: Whoa that’s crazy and no cool at all I agree But it's okay because I'm going to keep moving forward
beanbean Posted June 26 Report Posted June 26 1 minute ago, MissAnna said: I agree But it's okay because I'm going to keep moving forward That’s probably the wise move 1
MissAnna Posted June 26 Author Report Posted June 26 3 minutes ago, beanbean said: That’s probably the wise move I've been sad long enough and cried so much I'm not a pretty crier either lol I can't allow them to get me down any longer
beanbean Posted June 26 Report Posted June 26 35 minutes ago, MissAnna said: I've been sad long enough and cried so much I'm not a pretty crier either lol I can't allow them to get me down any longer Yeah work shouldn’t get tears unless there of happiness 1
MissAnna Posted June 26 Author Report Posted June 26 22 minutes ago, beanbean said: Yeah work shouldn’t get tears unless there of happiness Thank you Bean
.คℓ𝐞メเᏰααα .ᐟ Posted June 26 Report Posted June 26 2 hours ago, MissAnna said: Its because a girl at work doesn't like me and now work has deemed me to nice, to kind, to helpful and to bubbly. And they told me I needed to learn to talk less So all day today I didn't speak unless I was needed. It made me feel like being back in my childhood trauma. But it's okay because I have plenty of degrees under my belt and I am going to find a better job. The doctors I am working with our extremely upset with management for the way they are treating me. but you can't make everyone like you They have been treating me poorly since I have been diagnosed with MS I believe they are trying to get me to quit Well if I were you, I'd get a lawyer involved. Disabilities/medical conditions are not something employers are legally allowed to discriminate against. You shouldn't have to find a new job, but they as an employer, need to make accommodations for you. But I'm sorry to hear this has happened to you. And while I'll admit that as an introvert, I can become overwhelmed and agree that you're overly bubbly and talkative, I also understand that it's just who you are as a person. And so when I'm feeling extra *ugh leave me tf alone* it's really not hard to avoid you or other people with your personality type. What I'm failing to say without rambling is that, it's not you who's the problem... your coworker is. So keep being yourself, you're a lovely person and should be proud of your ability to talk with people. Particularly if you're dealing with customers or patients and not just coworkers. They're just pissed because you're happy with your existence just enough to spread happiness and they aren't with their own. And any employer should be thrilled to have their employees come into work with a smile on their face, particularly in current western culture and economic situation. Whatever you decide to do, new job or legal route, I wish you nothing but the very best. This world needs your positive attitude. And things would be a lot nicer to deal with if others took notice and pass it. Don't just lead an example, be the example. 1
MissAnna Posted June 26 Author Report Posted June 26 7 hours ago, .คℓ𝐞メเᏰααα .ᐟ said: Well if I were you, I'd get a lawyer involved. Disabilities/medical conditions are not something employers are legally allowed to discriminate against. You shouldn't have to find a new job, but they as an employer, need to make accommodations for you. But I'm sorry to hear this has happened to you. And while I'll admit that as an introvert, I can become overwhelmed and agree that you're overly bubbly and talkative, I also understand that it's just who you are as a person. And so when I'm feeling extra *ugh leave me tf alone* it's really not hard to avoid you or other people with your personality type. What I'm failing to say without rambling is that, it's not you who's the problem... your coworker is. So keep being yourself, you're a lovely person and should be proud of your ability to talk with people. Particularly if you're dealing with customers or patients and not just coworkers. They're just pissed because you're happy with your existence just enough to spread happiness and they aren't with their own. And any employer should be thrilled to have their employees come into work with a smile on their face, particularly in current western culture and economic situation. Whatever you decide to do, new job or legal route, I wish you nothing but the very best. This world needs your positive attitude. And things would be a lot nicer to deal with if others took notice and pass it. Don't just lead an example, be the example. Thank you for your kindness I'm not sure what I'm going to do yet, I'm just trying not to lose myself while adhering to what they want. But one day at a time one step at a time is all I can do 1
little locket Posted June 26 Report Posted June 26 Hi's sorry to here you was feeling sad. I sometimes stick on a song that has actions when sad, coz it's had to be frowny when your dancing to 'Saturday night' or macarana or the time warp. The bouncier the song the better. I hope you feel better soon 💕 1
beanbean Posted June 26 Report Posted June 26 11 hours ago, MissAnna said: Thank you Bean Of course hopefully you get it all figured it out soon and ou can leave those people who don’t appreciate you 1
MissAnna Posted June 26 Author Report Posted June 26 1 hour ago, little locket said: Hi's sorry to here you was feeling sad. I sometimes stick on a song that has actions when sad, coz it's had to be frowny when your dancing to 'Saturday night' or macarana or the time warp. The bouncier the song the better. I hope you feel better soon 💕 I do love the macarana though I'm not a great at it And who doesn't love to boogie to Saturday night 😊 Thank you for such wonderful suggestions
MissAnna Posted June 26 Author Report Posted June 26 17 minutes ago, beanbean said: Of course hopefully you get it all figured it out soon and ou can leave those people who don’t appreciate you I agree I believe my time with them has came to a close and it's time to start a new chapter I have had several offers from others physicians I believe I will take one of them up
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