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[peanutpuppy]

Do any other littles crave rules ?! Sqtructure is such a big thing for me.

During my ex dynamic my daddy wasn't very good at giving rules and I craved them so bad even making up my own at the time. It really didn't feel the same at all and absolutely sucked in my opinion. 

All a girl like me could ever want rn is a proper bedtime rules awards and some discipline on the side! 

[NR_Daddy]

I think you will find there are plenty that crave structure and rules.

If you think of a topic, it's probably been discussed already. You can use the search bar to search for other topics of a similar nature.

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[hubblez_x]

Absolutely. I find it so hard to be accountable only to myself and a lot easier to be accountable to a daddy. 

I need a daddy that can give me rules, structure and routine that works for me and is achievable.

[peanutpuppy]

1 hour ago, hubblez_x said:

Absolutely. I find it so hard to be accountable only to myself and a lot easier to be accountable to a daddy. 

I need a daddy that can give me rules, structure and routine that works for me and is achievable.

I feel like in my book it's the BARE minimum! 

[peanutpuppy]

2 hours ago, NR_Daddy said:

I think you will find there are plenty that crave structure and rules.

If you think of a topic, it's probably been discussed already. You can sure the search bar to search for other topics of a similar nature.

Dang nabbit ;-; thanks anyways? 

[hubblez_x]

34 minutes ago, p4intingpup said:

I feel like in my book it's the BARE minimum! 

I guess every dynamic is different. You just have to communicate that it is a non negotiable for you then they can decide if it is something they want to do and can do.

[little locket]

I know exactly how you feel, my Daddy is a soft daddy and likes to go with the flow rather than setting strict rules and routine. And I like routine.... a little too much, which is my autism. So my Daddy keeps me off a routine and the rules light on purpose so I can't get hyper fixated or locked into habits that then become a problem. 🤔 so he keeps my disorganised for my own good 😁 

Edited June 26 by little locket

[hubblez_x]

5 minutes ago, little locket said:

I know exactly how you feel, my Daddy is a soft daddy and likes to go with the flow rather than setting strict rules and routine. And I like routine.... a little too much, which is my autism. So my Daddy keeps me off a routine and the rules light on purpose so I can't get hyper fixated or locked into habits that then become a problem. 🤔 so he keeps my disorganised for my own good 😁 

Oh that's so sweet how he knows you and has your best interests. Very cute 🥰 

[peanutpuppy]

 

1 hour ago, little locket said:

I know exactly how you feel, my Daddy is a soft daddy and likes to go with the flow rather than setting strict rules and routine. And I like routine.... a little too much, which is my autism. So my Daddy keeps me off a routine and the rules light on purpose so I can't get hyper fixated or locked into habits that then become a problem. 🤔 so he keeps my disorganised for my own good 😁 

I have autism too! It's the opposite for me I guess. I really do fall apart without routine in some cases and in others it's ok to go with the flow! Absolutely love how healthy your dynamic is !

[MissNMTX]

It's very common to desire rules. I personally really enjoy them. I think that's part of the appeal of the dynamic, especially for those of us to are super boss babes in our public lives. All you have to do is follow the rules.... there's such freedom and even a degree of rest involved. It's a lovely feeling... When it works.

[LilJeanie]

ADHD'er here, and YES I need rules!  This is a discussion that my Daddy and I have been having lately.  At first, he wanted to set rules and I pushed back against that HARD because of the relationship that I had just gotten out of.  But I have come to realize that I need them.  

[Sicarie]

I was talking to my Daddy about this last night. I need rules, structure, and routine. It helps me with my anxiety and stress, and I also like the praise hehe. Especially if a chore chart and stickers are involved. 

[little locket]

I been thinking and I might know something that might help, when I first started dating my Daddy we were long distance so to help me with the few rules and routine we had we used and app called 'Obedience'. You can use it with a partner or without and set yourself tasks and routine and tick it off and set rewards and all sorts......... now I think about it I kind of miss it now we don't use it as we're together..... I might talk to my Daddy about that. But look it up if you like, you can get the free version or pay a bit to unlock the messaging part and other stuff. It's also secure coz you can set it with a pin code and make the app icon say 'Habits' so it looks like a routine tracker rather than what it's ment to be which I think is a dom/sub tracker. But I works good to Little routine too 😁