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Hi everyone,

My name is Gellybeangrl11! I am new to the DDlg dynamic, like really new only 3 months old. I am in my first relationship with my wonderful Daddy!

I am wondering if anyone else feels different when they are with their Daddy vs when they are alone at home in their own space? Daddy and I have a LDR (long distance relationship). We do not live together, but we do see each other regularly. When I am at home in my space I have my things (stuffies, coloring books, books, cartoons, puppy (she's real not a stuffie) that helps keep me grounded in little space.

My Daddy and I live pretty far away from each other. When we do see each other we both drive halfway to a meeting place. We usually spend the night. When I am with my Daddy I still feel little. I love when he strokes my cheek, gives me forehead and nose kisses, snuggles, lets me wear his T-shirt, tickles and cuddles with me, etc. Because we don't have a lot of time together we don't color together, cook, or do arts and crafts stuff. 

The other day Daddy asked me if I was in "little space" when I am with him like how I am at home, and I said, "Not always". This concerned Daddy. Since I am so new, I was wanting to know if there is anyone out there who feels the same? Do you experience little space differently when with your Daddy than you do when you are alone? I first thought of being more physically intimate with Daddy when together contributed to me "falling out of little space", but now I don't think that is the case. I think that I am still in little space, it just feels different because I am with Daddy. 

I hope that my question makes sense. I just need some feedback from other littles/middles. I don't want Daddy to worry that he is not a good fit for me, because I don't feel like I do at home in "little space", like I fell when I am with him. Any insight anyone could help me with would be great!

Thanks,

Gellybeangrl11

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