Gellybeangrl11 Posted June 30 Report Posted June 30 Hello, I am in my 50's and am a 11-13 year old middle. I am new to being in a DD/lg relationship. I am older and have always gravitated to being a middle/little, but I had difficulty embracing it. My Ex didn't get it and I let that part of myself go into hiding. Now that my ex is out of the picture, and I am doing my best to reclaim myself. In doing so I have found myself in a DD/lg relationship. It is my first time being in a dynamic such as this. It is also a long distance relationship, which makes things a bit harder. I have a very hectic and professional job. As soon as I walk through my apartment doors, I am in "little space". I am hoping to find friends and others to talk about living life as a middle/little. I am still learning...only have 3 months under my belt. Thanks, Gellybeangrl11 2 1
LilJeanie Posted June 30 Report Posted June 30 I am also in my 50's. I am a 9-11 year old middle. I was so fortunate to find my Daddy about 10 years ago, but I fought to embrace my little side. I have only just started doing so. Daddy is supportive, but doesn't always get it right. And I don't always communicate effectively. I think that is one of the most important things with any dynamic, effective communication. Long distance is hard, but I am glad that you are finding time to be your authentic self and that there is someone to support you. I am also looking for friends.... 1
Gellybeangrl11 Posted July 1 Author Report Posted July 1 LilJeanie, Thank you for sharing…that is so great that you found your Daddy 10 years ago. I don’t think anyone gets it right 100% of the time…😊. Good communication and the willingness to listen always helps things get better. Long distance relationships are hard, but I am finding it to be worth it..😊. Gellybeangrl 1
CuriousBaker Posted August 20 Report Posted August 20 Hello, I am also in my 50's and new to this. I am an actual caregiver of the past 24 years and counting somedays are way more draining then others. I have always taken care of everyone else and put myself last. After my last relationship of 20 years, I am trying to heal myself and see what it is I like and enjoy as a person. I am slowly finding out that the things I love doing are leading me towards being a little. From what I am reading and discovering I am a toddler to middle. I am not sure how to meet others like me or in the community. I feel like I am drowning with out a life raft. I was so happy to find this community. I have only talked with a few others but they have been very nice and helpful. I am not sure if I am explaining this correctly or not so please forgive me. 1
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