New Daddy looking for punishment advice and reltionship advice.

[UnrulySaiyan2393]

So I'm relatively new to this. I know I've always been into it for years and I've talked to many littles and established that's what I want but never had a reltionship til now. Things are going good for the most part but the thing is we started getting into the dynamic pretty quickly and it started out very sexual and it still is, but we aren't officially in a relationship yet, she has a son and other life things going on and wants to make sure I'm the right dom for her which is understandable. I think it will be okay we are both learning and we are both very into eachother. I'm just waiting for the right moment to ask her to be mine and make it sweet and I think she's waiting on that also. Another problem I'm having, I have no transportation right now and she does. So when I see her she's the one driving which is fine, but when she's bad or bratty and I need to administer punishment, I can't do so right away, and there have been a couple times where I said she needed spankings then didn't follow through and that was bad I realize. And she definitely does things on purpose to see what she can get away with for sure!! She wants the pubishment aspect i know this. And to be thrown around and out in her place i just wanna be better at it. For now I just tell her when she's bad and I put down tallys for each thing and how many spanking she will get when I see her next. I'm just self taught with all of this so far. I read alot. Downloaded enter the dom by brandom the dom. Awesome book for anyone new to this and wants to become more dominant in every day life in general. Highly recommend. Anyways any info is good info really. I would greatly appreciate guys! Thanks for reading. 

[shadowrider]

Hi and congrats on the relationship. 

Talk to them to see what types of punishments they are ok with and dead set against first.

 Being in separate locations can make it more difficult to hand out corrections but not every punishment needs to involve spanking or your presence.

 You can go old school and have them write lines or do corner time.

 A rubber band around the wrist, arm, or leg that they have to stretch and pop a set number of times is unpleasant without being too harsh. And you supply the big rubber bands, none of those tiny ones that break easily.

 Draw a circle or place a sticker on the wall an inch or two higher than their nose. Then make them tiptoe to place their nose in the circle for a few minutes. Burning calves will quickly take away a bratty streak, and it helps define those calves.

 Kneeling on a cup of raw rice with bare knees will definitely get their attention if they were extra bratty. 

Use technology to your advantage. Any punishment like the kneeling or corner time can be live chatted so you can verify they are following through with your instructions.

Also, live chat the writing lines. Some like to tape pencils together so they can write multiple lines at a time. Sorry to the littles but we're on to your shenanigans.

[beanbean]

Yep like stated above communication ask them remember we are all different and the wrong punishment are one deemed unfair can undo a relationship so lots of questions and have a very defined rules and punishments