Dating

[Lil_angel_1]

I am just getting into the dating service world and trying to find a daddy. It’s so exhausting going through the different accounts and finding someone compatible. Does anyone know if it makes sense to find someone you like and then try to ease them into ddlg or would that be more difficult? I just don’t want to give up being little but at the same time finding a daddy is super hard. 

[MissAnna]

It can be frustrating, but I promise there are so many good Daddy Dom's on here and even outside of this community.

It takes time but I promise, they are out there looking for you just as much as you are looking for them

Edited Friday at 09:13 AM by MissAnna

[bubba003]

Hey there, I'm a DD looking to find myself a little i would love to talk more and see if we would get along ! Check my profile/posts and see what you think 

[bubba003]

Ofc im also open to other sides as I see you put ur a little more than a middle on your profile

[Lil_K47]

On 7/10/2025 at 8:17 PM, Lil_angel_1 said:

I am just getting into the dating service world and trying to find a daddy. It’s so exhausting going through the different accounts and finding someone compatible. Does anyone know if it makes sense to find someone you like and then try to ease them into ddlg or would that be more difficult? I just don’t want to give up being little but at the same time finding a daddy is super hard. 

so this is just my own personal experience,  so I don't want to discourage you from meeting someone outside of this community. but I have found with "vanilla dating" I have found it way more difficult to talk to guys, because honestly with my kinks and my past experiences I'm afraid that's gonna be a turn off and it's gonna chase them away. or they're gonna think hey she used to be a swinger at one time she's probably easy! And that is so far from the truth!

I think with any dating, taking the time to get to know somebody first,before you start talking about intimacy is a good idea. Then if you find your compatible in other parts of the relationship you can start talking about the different things that they are of may not interest you intimacy wise,  does that make sense. 

 

or well I kinda have my own issues with that but that's what everybody is telling me take the time to get to know somebody first as a person before you introduce anykink related subject.

 

Good luck! Remember they're always people here willing to talk and answer questions 🥰🥰

 

[travelingman90]

A daddy here! My personal experience with cgl has definitely been better when two people are already into it and meeting from that same place usually.BUT it's not absolutely unheard of that you could show a partner you're already in a good relationship with what you like and how you'd like to be treated. I think it's definitely harder but it's not impossible.imo It's a little bit like meeting someone who already speaks your language rather than having to teach someone so you can communicate your needs and desires with ease. Follow your heart honestly. If you actually already have someone in mind who feels like they have daddy potential I don't see why you couldn't try. Everybody starts somewhere.

 

Also where are you looking for daddies and how? In case you haven't tried some of the places I've had luck in the past with finding partners.

Edited 22 hours ago by travelingman90

[Lil_angel_1]

1 hour ago, travelingman90 said:

A daddy here! My personal experience with cgl has definitely been better when two people are already into it and meeting from that same place usually.BUT it's not absolutely unheard of that you could show a partner you're already in a good relationship with what you like and how you'd like to be treated. I think it's definitely harder but it's not impossible.imo It's a little bit like meeting someone who already speaks your language rather than having to teach someone so you can communicate your needs and desires with ease. Follow your heart honestly. If you actually already have someone in mind who feels like they have daddy potential I don't see why you couldn't try. Everybody starts somewhere.

 

Also where are you looking for daddies and how? In case you haven't tried some of the places I've had luck in the past with finding partners.

Thanks for the advice. I've been looking mostly here and fb. 

[Little kaiya]

I've always had far better luck introducing a partner than dating someone already into a specific community or kink. Too often I found a lot of folks already in a community or kink had their own concept and would do the whole "this is the right way" or "so and so told me" or "this is how my ex and I did things". Introducing a partner to things fresh let us explore and build together while finding what worked best for us as a couple.

In terms of finding folks for me it was always about being out and about at events, meeting people, connecting as adults and just generally interacting and having fun.

[travelingman90]

2 hours ago, Lil_angel_1 said:

Thanks for the advice. I've been looking mostly here and fb. 

Absolutely! Been a daddy for like 15 years. May as well try to help if I can 😂.

If you don't mind my suggestions though I think you could also try using the cglpersonals subreddit and if you're not horribly aggravated by fetlife its good once in a while to find partners in ddlg/cgl personals groups. But you likely might get mobbed by low effort 100 dms in a day.

 

There's like at least 2 or 3 big groups but it's certainly a wildly different vibe than here and reddit.

Edited 18 hours ago by travelingman90