beaniebaby95 Posted Sunday at 01:18 AM Report Posted Sunday at 01:18 AM Hello im looking to vent and probably advice. I carry the mental load of my family and make most of the important decisions etc as I'm older than my daddy and more established as far as the bills are in my name and all that. I've only discovered I'm a little/middle a little bit ago. I'm finding that all of the responsibilities are dragging me down and I want to ask my daddy for a more formal dynamic like with actual rules and stuff as we only do ddlg stuff a little bit rn. Mostly it's just me calling him daddy and an occasional spanking. How do yall balance real life responsibilities and needing to go little? How do you communicate a need for structure? I might be overthinking it a bit lol thanks in advance for any input.
Lil_K47 Posted Sunday at 01:35 AM Report Posted Sunday at 01:35 AM (edited) well I can't claim to have a whole lot of experience myself with the DLG dynamic but what I can tell you is to just sit down and have a conversation with him. communication is key to any relationship! and y'all need to just have a Frank discussion about your needs and his needs and then come to decisions together about what's gonna work for both of you. I know it's sometimeshard to initiate conversations like that but I think if you do that you'll feel better! Good luck sweetheart sending you big hugs! Edited Sunday at 01:36 AM by Lil_K47 1
Little kaiya Posted Sunday at 02:29 AM Report Posted Sunday at 02:29 AM I'm the main provider for my family so also make a lot of the decisions. When i need little time I let my Daddy know if it's during the day or in evenings we already have a routine and rules. For us it was a matter if having an adult to adult conversation and finding what works best for us both. 1
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