Bigs-- How Did You Know You Wanted to BE a Big?

[Cranius]

What made you decide to be a big? If you switch, what made you decide to switch to big part-time? 

[Little kaiya]

I asked my Daddy and His simple reply was, "It's who I am, it wasn't a decision."

[MissAnna]

7 hours ago, Cranius said:

What made you decide to be a big? If you switch, what made you decide to switch to big part-time? 

I don't know how to answer that one, for me I had always been a Dom and then well life happened. 

I can't say I'm a switch, though I am 100% a submissive, so I'm not sure where I fit in anymore, to be honest. 

Being big or little is all about finding peace within yourself.

And the answer you are looking for is do you enjoy having the control in a relationship or do you enjoy someone else having the control?

Daddy @-Soul- would be more helpful than me when explaining this. He has a way of explaining things for everyone to understand. 

[-Soul-]

For me it came from listening first to others, then deeper to myself. I felt most like me when I was creating a space for someone a space safe enough to be playful yet vulnerable. This ain’t just a kink, but my life. Protecting that space, nurturing it, guiding it.. that felt right in my bones. This is just me.