ivy_val Posted August 14 Report Posted August 14 hi hiii so my family n i are leaving for a trip soon n im suuuuper excited !!! but.. ill be travelin w my parents n im a bit worried abt havin time to myself to be little . we’ll be sharin the same hotel room bc of costs n my nighttime routine normally consists of little activities idk if this post is me askin for advice or jus voicin my concern but im a lil worried abt my mental health during that time
NickyMoon Posted August 14 Report Posted August 14 Sending you lots of hugs for support! I don't know if its feasible but maybe you could find a way to "take a long bath" and have a little shower bag to keep your little things in to take with you so you can do your nightly routine. May not be something you can do the whole time but it could be a way to sneak it in for your mental health. (side note, your location made me giggle) 1
ivy_val Posted August 14 Author Report Posted August 14 30 minutes ago, NickyMoon said: Sending you lots of hugs for support! I don't know if its feasible but maybe you could find a way to "take a long bath" and have a little shower bag to keep your little things in to take with you so you can do your nightly routine. May not be something you can do the whole time but it could be a way to sneak it in for your mental health. (side note, your location made me giggle) thankiessss ^^ i like that idea !! ive been considering whether or not to take a stuffie w me but maybe i should . i struggle to sleep without one n they make me feel little more than anything (omggg new friend !! so many worshipers on here!!) 1
Faelin Posted August 14 Report Posted August 14 I'm the same way, can't sleep without a stuffie in my arms. I've just stopped caring what others, even family, think about it. Hope you have a fun trip!! 2
ivy_val Posted August 14 Author Report Posted August 14 50 minutes ago, Faelin said: I'm the same way, can't sleep without a stuffie in my arms. I've just stopped caring what others, even family, think about it. Hope you have a fun trip!! thank uuu 🩷 i appreciate it
Little kaiya Posted August 14 Report Posted August 14 I used to travel a ton for work and my Wife always used to send me with a small Gund stuffed bear thst we called Cubbins. I worked recruiting for a uniformed federal department and it was never an issue. Honestly, if a stuffie helps you sleep take one. I'm 47 and my Wife and my Daddy never let me go anywhere overnight without a stuffie. 2
ivy_val Posted August 14 Author Report Posted August 14 15 minutes ago, Little kaiya said: I used to travel a ton for work and my Wife always used to send me with a small Gund stuffed bear thst we called Cubbins. I worked recruiting for a uniformed federal department and it was never an issue. Honestly, if a stuffie helps you sleep take one. I'm 47 and my Wife and my Daddy never let me go anywhere overnight without a stuffie. 🙂↕️🙂↕️ was it a decent size or smaller ? i rlly want to take one thas regular sized but idk if ill hv the space in my bags or the hands to carry it on n off the planes !!
Little kaiya Posted August 14 Report Posted August 14 He's about a foot and a half long but about a foot tall. Big enough to cuddle and small enough to ride on top of my luggage. One of the hotels I stayed at had put him in a little sleeping bag when cleaning the room, it was adorable. 1
ivy_val Posted August 15 Author Report Posted August 15 5 hours ago, Little kaiya said: He's about a foot and a half long but about a foot tall. Big enough to cuddle and small enough to ride on top of my luggage. One of the hotels I stayed at had put him in a little sleeping bag when cleaning the room, it was adorable. that is soooooo cute omg i think im convinced now haha
Little kaiya Posted August 15 Report Posted August 15 One trip down to Virginia to see a Daddy, I was 23 at the time, I took a 3 foot tall stuffed bear. On the way back one of the flight attendants came over and told me I couldn't have the bear in my lap. I was a bit disappointed thinking I'd have to put the bear in the overhead, nope. The flight attendant just said, "all passengers need their own seat and to be buckled in". She took the bear and buckled him into the seat beside me. Honestly, stuffed animals are generally given a pass with just a few friendly jokes. Heck, my mom gave my dad one when he was diagnosed with cancer and he took thst bear everywhere with him until he passed away. At the end of the day if someone has an issue with a stuffie it says more about them than you. 2
ivy_val Posted August 15 Author Report Posted August 15 13 hours ago, Little kaiya said: One trip down to Virginia to see a Daddy, I was 23 at the time, I took a 3 foot tall stuffed bear. On the way back one of the flight attendants came over and told me I couldn't have the bear in my lap. I was a bit disappointed thinking I'd have to put the bear in the overhead, nope. The flight attendant just said, "all passengers need their own seat and to be buckled in". She took the bear and buckled him into the seat beside me. Honestly, stuffed animals are generally given a pass with just a few friendly jokes. Heck, my mom gave my dad one when he was diagnosed with cancer and he took thst bear everywhere with him until he passed away. At the end of the day if someone has an issue with a stuffie it says more about them than you. eeee that is so sweet !!! n ur right, i shouldn’t care bc they bring me comfort !!
JunleMaster Posted 8 hours ago Report Posted 8 hours ago I pack a little bag with coloring books, a small plushie, and snacks that feel safe. I also bring comfy clothes that help me feel small even in grown-up places. 1
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