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[Sweetie436]

Hello, I’m new to this community and I’m trying to figure out what sort of little I am. I’m wondering if anyone has any advice on how to really figure it out. I think I’m a toddler but I’m still not fully comfortable with that notion. Is there a good way to start slow with discovering little headspace? Would it be better to jump in? If anyone has any advice I would love to hear it

[DaddyUmbreon]

Welcome to the community. You’ll find a many great people here and tons of experiences from others. 
I would recommend joining some of the clubs and making friends. Take your time to read articles in the DdLg Discussion, and Little Space. Also Join the “Knowledge is Power” group. There are some great articles there for starters and more. 
Since you are new, take your time and don’t rush into anything, no matter what anyone says. Take things at your own pace and ask plenty of questions. The community is here for you as a whole. 
So welcome again. I hope you discover every thing you want about yourself and remember there is no one set form to this dynamic. It is what you make of it. 

[SleepyLynn]

4 hours ago, Sweetie436 said:

Hello, I’m new to this community and I’m trying to figure out what sort of little I am. I’m wondering if anyone has any advice on how to really figure it out. I think I’m a toddler, but I’m still not entirely comfortable with that notion. Is there a good way to start slow with discovering little headspace? Would it be better to jump in? If anyone has any advice I would love to hear it

Hi, I am new here too- and I'm trying to learn my little age as well. For me I am starting with things I'm drawn to and comfortable with and experimenting. For starters, I have a coloring book, some slime, a journal, a sippy cup, a snack up, and a pacifier - all to try out and see what I like/don't like and what appeals to me. I plan to revisit old activities I used to love and adore as a kid and explore how it makes me feel and where my own personal comforts lie. From other littles ive learned to take my time and that you dont need to know your little age right away- just experiment, be safe, take your time and good luck!

[.คℓ𝐞ﾒเᏰααα .ᐟ]

You don't need to know your Little age at all. Or even have a Little Age. It's a bit more practical to know if you're a Baby, Little, Middle, or Teen, than to worry about knowing exactly what age number you are.

There are specific ages stereotypically associated with each group, for sure, but it's definitely not mandatory to know an exact age number. And yes, you can be a mixture of different types.

It's totally okay to just jump right in, but it's equally okay to be deliberately slow and experimental. There are no wrong ways to participate in Littlespace, your way matters only to you. Use your goals and desires for Littlespace to help shape Yourspace.

[MasterPhotog]

13 hours ago, Sweetie436 said:

Hello, I’m new to this community and I’m trying to figure out what sort of little I am. I’m wondering if anyone has any advice on how to really figure it out. I think I’m a toddler but I’m still not fully comfortable with that notion. Is there a good way to start slow with discovering little headspace? Would it be better to jump in? If anyone has any advice I would love to hear it

 

8 hours ago, SleepyLynn said:

Hi, I am new here too- and I'm trying to learn my little age as well. For me I am starting with things I'm drawn to and comfortable with and experimenting. For starters, I have a coloring book, some slime, a journal, a sippy cup, a snack up, and a pacifier - all to try out and see what I like/don't like and what appeals to me. I plan to revisit old activities I used to love and adore as a kid and explore how it makes me feel and where my own personal comforts lie. From other littles ive learned to take my time and that you dont need to know your little age right away- just experiment, be safe, take your time and good luck!

As others have said, the best thing you both can do, as a little, is keep an open mind and enjoy your little journey without stressing about fitting into a certain little age. You're special just as you are, no matter your age.

As you grow, you’ll find yourself loving certain little activities, then maybe drifting away from them, only to come back and enjoy them all over again. Your likes and little interests may change over time, and that’s completely normal. It’s all part of your unique journey.

In addition, you will love and enjoy certain activities but may like some other activities more and not like the ones you loved once only to start loving them again, it's all part of your little journey. The important thing to keep in mind that you continue to enjoy what makes you feel special and proud of yourself. 

Feel free to reach out anytime if you have any questions. 

[SleepyLynn]

1 hour ago, MasterPhotog said:

 

As others have said, the best thing you both can do, as a little, is keep an open mind and enjoy your little journey without stressing about fitting into a certain little age. You're special just as you are, no matter your age.

As you grow, you’ll find yourself loving certain little activities, then maybe drifting away from them, only to come back and enjoy them all over again. Your likes and little interests may change over time, and that’s completely normal. It’s all part of your unique journey.

In addition, you will love and enjoy certain activities but may like some other activities more and not like the ones you loved once only to start loving them again, it's all part of your little journey. The important thing to keep in mind that you continue to enjoy what makes you feel special and proud of yourself. 

Feel free to reach out anytime if you have any questions. 

thank you so much, i really appreciate this-  right now im trying to find what i enjoy / revisiting things I once loved and starting with things I'm comfortable with but i wont rush to find an age and just enjoy my little space and making it m y own ^^

[bigdaddyCG]

On 9/3/2025 at 12:18 PM, Sweetie436 said:

Hello, I’m new to this community and I’m trying to figure out what sort of little I am. I’m wondering if anyone has any advice on how to really figure it out. I think I’m a toddler but I’m still not fully comfortable with that notion. Is there a good way to start slow with discovering little headspace? Would it be better to jump in? If anyone has any advice I would love to hear it

The best way is to just embrace it don't feel bad and explore things, do you remember what you are like in little space do you go non verbal like a baby or do you make sentences, do you feel like you always need a pacifier? Do you think you'll ever need diapers? I'm an experienced daddy who can help you and guide if you want to msg me