Looking for Wisdom from Experienced Littles & CGs

[Little_Zaheera]

🌸 Hi everyone,

I’ve been reflecting a lot on what makes a dynamic really thrive beyond the first few weeks of excitement. I know that every relationship is different, but I’d love to learn from people here who have more experience.

What’s the best piece of advice you’d give for keeping a DDlg connection strong in the long run?

I’m especially curious about the small things; the habits, rituals, or little acts of care that end up making the biggest difference over time.

Thanks in advance for sharing 💕

[Little kaiya]

The biggest piece of advice I'd offer is the same piece if advice I'd offer for any relationship . . . Communicate. Communicate. Communicate. Communicate.

Communication is such a critical piece of any relationship because it covers things that are working well, things that need improvement, likes or desires that may have changed and more. People sometimes get so caught up in habits or rituals that they tend to forget to really check in and not just talk but really actively listen to each other.

Habits and rituals are fine and fun but without communication things almost inevitably will fall apart at some time.