Little but not really really littlespace

[DaddysLittleDragon]

Hia y’all! Does anyone else feel little, but don’t really have a little age or really a little space (like headspace) they go to? For me, I feel little and cute and sassy, I love my girly stuff, bows, bubbles, old cartoons, little kid songs, etc, but I don’t really.. go into a separate headspace, I just feel like it’s literally just part of me and my personality and I’ve been old because of that I’m not “a real little” by people in the past.. any advice or idk comments?

[DaddyUmbreon]

I’ll just quickly chime in. There is no definitive outline to your little self. I’ve known many Littles and people in general. Some can narrow themselves to a particular age range. Some are more fluid and can move through different age groups from baby, little, middle, and even teen. The thing about being a little is your own headspace and how you define it. The activities that make you feel smol and every bit of the feeling and comfort you have there. Don’t let others dictate what truly “makes” or “doesn’t make” you little. Your adult age, your little age(if you’ve come to define it or not), your role(Dom or sub, cuz littles can be either), and anything else, is defined by you. From all that I can see, you are a “real little”, if you need someone to validate it for you. Those that say you aren’t don’t truly know how big and open this community is. 

[Lil_K47]

if I've said it once I'll say it again, and again, and again and again! There is absolutely NO wrong way to be little! We are all individuals and we are all very different and that is all very OK!! I live by myself I don't have a caregiver daddy whatever, I never actually had design "little time", absolutely does not mean I'm not a little! I'm childlike most of the time except when I have to be an adult ( you know work lol) I love the color and craft and dress up, but I'm not necessarily in little headspace when I do that I'm just being me!

If anyone ever says to you you're being a little wrong walk away honey walk away! You are perfect just the way you are I promise! 🥰

[sheepie uwu]

You're a Little. They're gatekeeping assholes.

Some people do experience separate headspaces or deliberately separate their headspaces, but it's not mandatory in order to be a Little. There are no rules or regulations towards defining what is a Little, other than simply identifying as one. Anything other than that, is purely subjective in nature and shifts from one person to the next. All forms of Littlespace are valid.

These are probably the same people that say it's mandatory to be in an involuntary headspace for AgeRe. Or the same people that try in invalidate Teenspace. Or those that think we need to have an age number. Or the idiots who are convinced that I can't be dominant because I'm smol.

They're all completely wrong, but pop off I guess. SoI'll just pop this here, it sounds like you could potentially benefit from it.

 

Edited September 19 by sheepie uwu

[Faelin]

I'll chime in here and agree with everyone. There is no one way to be a little. If you have fun with "more childish activities and things" you are a little. Doesn't matter the route you take to it. Ignore the meanies, plop down on the soft blankies and lets have a dress up tea party! 🥰

[MissNMTX]

Again, same as everyone else there is no one way. I'm a middle and I definitely don't regress the way it's typically described. If your little self is more integrated into yourself that's great. Personally, I'd say that's a positive. Either way, the way that works for you is what works best for you. I know it's hard to not listen to the typical voices, we all struggle with not fitting in or belonging from time to time. Honestly, though there's no such thing as "normal" or "typical". Only what works in a healthy way for e 

[Littlexmousex]

Same as everyone else has already said but with glitter ✨ !!! There isn’t a right or wrong way to be a little! It’s not some perfect shaped cookie cutter cut out or something. ☺️ You are you and that’s all that counts! I definitely don’t fit a lot of molds of “little” but I am a little and I am me! ✨🎀