need advice and tips on how to be bad? advice from anyone is fine!!

[ddysbuni]

hi!! i’m new here, lol. umm but i kinda need help on uh, i don’t really know how to put it? so im just going to break it down! well i was talking to my daddy and i mentioned that i could be bad if i wanted to (i dont know how to be bad, ive been researching HOW to be!) he says that i would be the worst at being bad—WHICH I THOUGHT what?! really? and he also went on about that i’m too “adorable” too “cute”!! and that he hasn’t been needing to make punishments this whole relationship because of how good i am… which also made me think hmph am i too soft?! okay im not going to lie im always good with my daddy—yeah i get fussy and a little caught up in my emotions but we always talk about it after because i really really like coming clean. i don’t like to hide anything from him (except this but i plan on telling him later about it… just have to find a good way to bring it up) and he’s super super nice and patient! but i wanna prove him wrong but in a playful way that i can be bad! BUT JUST FOR A SMALL TIME!! like a couple minutes!! but i also don’t wanna hurt him or be mean or lie to him about anything. i tried saying no when he told me to come color with him but i ended up caving because i thought about him coloring by himself so… i started tearing up a bit and apologized because i really did wanna color with him and felt guilty… so, i need tips!! anything is helpful, and ill appreciate any kind of feedback from anyone! thank you!

Edited Saturday at 07:07 PM by ddysbuni

[LuckyLilac]

So something like this needs negotiating in advance, what it and isn't okay to misbehave around. A lot of people have "funishments", still enjoyable with the aesthetic of punishment for playful consquences to playful misbehaviour. I struggle being bad too, but from what I've observed of my metamour/"sister", to playfully irritate my Mummy she'll use a lot of current kids' slang, play or sing Baby Shark, insist it's nearly Christmas in the middle of summer... that kind of harmless playful thing. She loves the spankings if she pushes it, finds them comforting. Their dynamic is more discipline based than mine with my Mummy lol. But I'd discuss and personalise it more for your case.

[ddysbuni]

52 minutes ago, LuckyLilac said:

So something like this needs negotiating in advance, what it and isn't okay to misbehave around. A lot of people have "funishments", still enjoyable with the aesthetic of punishment for playful consquences to playful misbehaviour. I struggle being bad too, but from what I've observed of my metamour/"sister", to playfully irritate my Mummy she'll use a lot of current kids' slang, play or sing Baby Shark, insist it's nearly Christmas in the middle of summer... that kind of harmless playful thing. She loves the spankings if she pushes it, finds them comforting. Their dynamic is more discipline based than mine with my Mummy lol. But I'd discuss and personalise it more for your case.

oh, okay i see! i voiced out to him and we are working on it. mm, but not much annoys him and he’s pretty serious mm.. maybe i’ll just tease before giving him his back scratches when he asks or something hehe. thank you for the kind advice! 💗

[sheepie uwu]

Definitely talk about boundaries and preferences before doing anything. But something simple like playful sassy talkback is typically guaranteed fun. Particularly if you utilize a more humorous approach and your partner has a sense of humor. You could also blow raspberries for added effect, lol. 

 

 

[ddysbuni]

2 hours ago, sheepie uwu said:

Definitely talk about boundaries and preferences before doing anything. But something simple like playful sassy talkback is typically guaranteed fun. Particularly if you utilize a more humorous approach and your partner has a sense of humor. You could also blow raspberries for added effect, lol. 

 

 

sorry, should’ve been a little clearer rather than saying “bad” i kinda meant bratty? like in that sense. but he laughs at my raspberries and asks me what’s wrong when im sassy, so i’ll definitely try to put them together and see what happens. thank you! 💗

[sheepie uwu]

I think sassy backtalk and questioning authority is what I do the most as a brat. Closely followed by finding loopholes and demanding attention/actions.