New Little

[BabyPrincess27]

Is it normal for a Daddy to want his Little to send him money for stuff?

[Little kaiya]

Not usually, no. It can certainly be seen as a potential red flag with it becoming more worrisome the shorter the time you've been together.

Considering you only posted Wednesday about looking for a Daddy I would suggest if someone is already asking you for money that is, in my view, a HUGE red flag.

Edited September 27 by Little kaiya

[BabyPrincess27]

Ok cause I have been talking to him on and off for about a month and he's like I need this much for vape juice or it's my turn to pay for YouTube prime but don't have enough. He hasn't directly asked me but I feel like it's implied.

[Darkhawkeye]

As a Daddy this is definitely not normal and as said above, "HUGE red flag". Especially if you've only been talking to him on and off for a month. I would take caution on this. If something doesn't feel right or feels off definitely take caution. 

[BabyPrincess27]

He hasn't directly asked for money. It's more like I wish I had $30 for vape juice or something like that and I'm just not sure.

[Lil_K47]

if you were living with this person and sharing expenses that would be one thing. since I really don't know the context of the conversation he could just be making the comments in passing, just making conversation or he could be trying to make you feel bad enough to send him money. 

Don't get me wrong I've lent and or given friends money but these are people that I've known for a long time, who I know without a shadow of a doubt would do the same for me if I ever needed it! 

[sheepie uwu]

8 hours ago, BabyPrincess27 said:

He hasn't directly asked for money. It's more like I wish I had $30 for vape juice or something like that and I'm just not sure.

That's possibly a romance scam. It's a red flag, particularly if he didn't explain properly that he wasn't directly asking for money. and just venting about life. Since you're new, I'll link you to some posts that I think will benefit you. Please stay safe~ Oh, and maybe consider messaging @shadowrider all of your evidence, just in case it is a scam.

 

Edited September 27 by sheepie uwu

[beanbean]

Just got to be careful but most likely if the person out to scam the will repeat the ask sadly that how they work a lot just be very cautious 

[bigdaddyCG]

11 hours ago, BabyPrincess27 said:

Is it normal for a Daddy to want his Little to send him money for stuff?

No way he's meant to be the provider,I don't trust him

[MasterPhotog]

10 hours ago, BabyPrincess27 said:

Ok cause I have been talking to him on and off for about a month and he's like I need this much for vape juice or it's my turn to pay for YouTube prime but don't have enough. He hasn't directly asked me but I feel like it's implied.

Whether or not he directly asks for money, take it as a red flag. Feel free to ignore his requests and let him know that you're not interested in that kind of arrangement, or in being his ATM. A healthy relationship should be built on trust, respect, and mutual support, not financial pressure. Best wishes. 

[Plus Size Princess]

It’s not normal for a daddy to ask a little/middle for money, especially in the beginning of a relationship. This person you’re talking to is either a total scammer or just someone who’s trying to get you to send them money. Mentioning how they wish they had money for (insert desire) is a way of trying to manipulate you into giving him money. I’d suggest disengaging before he tries to manipulate and use you further. I’m so glad you sought advice from this forum instead of giving into his manipulation. 
 

My last ex (a daddy) sent me money in exchange for doing written work for him. But towards the end, he stopped paying me for my work and kept giving me excuses regarding the delayed payment. Beware of anyone whose actions don’t reflect their words. If he keeps making comments that even allude to wanting money, take note of it and set a boundary if you must. Your perceptions sound spot on about him trying to drop hints for you to give him money.

Reciprocal relationships are give and take. Some people are chronic takers who either never reciprocate the energy you extend to them or simply stop reciprocating the energy you extend to them after a certain point. It sounds like this daddy is more concerned with taking what he can from you than connecting with you and making your life better. You are worth so much more than that, and I hope you connect with people who cherish you as soon as possible.

Good luck with everything!

[HoneySenpais_Stuffie]

No absolutely not! Be aware of scammers, he sounds like one. Be safe out there everyone. 

[BabyPrincess27]

I just want to be a good Little and have someone be there for me. I wish it wasn't so hard 😢

[Journey]

On 9/27/2025 at 1:19 AM, BabyPrincess27 said:

He hasn't directly asked for money. It's more like I wish I had $30 for vape juice or something like that and I'm just not sure.

He could be just sharing his thoughts with you, with no expectation that you send him money. It also could be a scam where he is trying to ask for money without asking for money directly.

I know that I have personally complained about my finances to friends or a love interest or my fiancée, but I did not expect them to send me any money. Some people assume that, but that is not always the case.

I would definitely be careful and would not send him any money. But don't assume they are trying to scam you based on a single statement. Look for patterns.

On 9/28/2025 at 9:26 PM, BabyPrincess27 said:

I just want to be a good Little and have someone be there for me. I wish it wasn't so hard 😢

That being said, if you are looking for a partner, you need to consider whether potential matches have what you are looking for.

But your daddy doesn't necessarily need to be rich to take care of you. I may not be rich, but I do take care of my middle as daddy regardless. 

[MissAnna]

Please don't send anyone money, regardless if they are a Dom or a little. @shadowrider has a strict policy on this

[BabyPrincess27]

I didn't send any and I don't need my Daddy to have money I just want that connection and love💜 I appreciate all the advice since I'm a new Little ☺️