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How to help a little that slips out of little space


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If you are referring getting them back to little or middle space, I can share my experiences.

For my wife, who is a perpetual middle, it is all about creating an environment where she feels safe age regressing, take away all adult responsibilities and concerns, and also treating her as if she were a child. If I do all of that, she tends to slip into middle space almost automatically.

What takes her out of middle space is asking her about adult matters, or asking her to make an adult decisions. Even simple things like asking her what she wants for dinner can take her out of middle space, since that requires her to engage her logical side. My wife's middle side is more emotional and instinctual. 

For my wife, middle space is more about how she feels rather than specific props. I treat her like a child and she age regresses to a child. For others, props like a blanky or specific cartoons or a coloring book may help trigger it. It depends on the person. 

Every person is different, but you would have to go back to whatever triggers little or middle space for them. Go back to what is working.

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That sounds lovely! She can consider herself so lucky to have you 💕

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