Middle questions.

[jenny70]

I feel like a middle, but have to cuddle my bear at night.  And make sure he is cold and shares my covers with me.  Can we be both? I don't like pacific or diapers.  Confused. Also,  how do we find daddies.  They all want young littles!☹️

[MissNMTX]

Classic middle conundrums. Firstly, I can't answer the Daddy question, but just be yourself and eventually, hopefully, just like in vanilla relationships, the right person will come along. Secondly, not liking diapers or pacifiers doesn't automatically make you a middle. You could definitely still be a "little" just maybe a more elementary school age. I'd suggest looking around, exploring and doing more research on that.

The most important thing really is to learn about yourself. The more you know about yourself the happier and more authentic and genuine you can be. Happy authentic people attract happy authentic people!

[Lil_K47]

i've always said my little age is somewhere between 5 and 10, but honestly there are days when I feel younger there are days when I feel older. It is what it is. So I kind of quit trying to define it, because I feel like we need what we need when we need it. And there's no wrong way to just be yourself. So for me I've quit worrying about you know what age am I and I'm just focused on doing the things that I enjoy doing when I'm in that little mindset. As for how to meet a daddy, I mean you can always put up a personal in the personal section, but I think the best things come when you're not expecting them. So for me I just decided to focus on making friends, and being active here in the community. I think things will happen when they're meant to happen. I know it can be frustrating waiting, but like @MissNMTX already said, I think it's a good idea to just keep focusing on continuing to learn about yourself. 

Sending some big hugs your way! 

[-Soul-]

The posts above both nailed it but here’s my two cents:- The beautiful thing about this lifestyle is that you truly can be whatever feels right for you. There’s no “one-size-fits-all” what matters most is that it makes you happy and that everything is consensual with any partner you share it with. 

As for finding a Daddy, that part can be a little tricky, but here’s something I’ve told others before: be active, make friends, join conversations, and just be you. The right people tend to find their way into your orbit when you’re being authentic. Not every Daddy, Mommy, or CG is looking for a young little; some connect better with middles, some prefer partners who are more submissive than small.

Try not to get too caught up in fitting a label perfectly, focus instead on your own self-discovery. The rest tends to fall into place when you’re confident and comfortable in who you are.

[MissNMTX]

The most important thing is always going to be that you're happy and safe.

[jenny70]

I understand, but you know what they say, can't teach a old dog new tricks. I am so in my mindset, I don't think I can change. 😉 i will just trust everything will work out.

[sheepie uwu]

Littlespace is a wide spectrum that fluctuates. It's best to just be yourself.