Burned Out

[YourDaddySweet]

Seems like relationships are not my cup of tea. Always end up feeling heartbroken even after giving it my all.

[MissAnna]

I'm sorry you have had this happen to you, relationships are hard and sometimes we have to go through a bunch of heartbreaking experiences, before we find the one who was always meant for us. 

I always tell people the ones who broke my heart where just stepping stones leading me to who I was really meant to be with. 

Take care of yourself and remember you have a whole community who is behind you and will talk to you if you need a someone a friend.

Until next time remember you matter, you are loved and you are worthy of being loved 

 

[YourDaddySweet]

Thanks for the encouragement. Means alot.

[NickyMoon]

MissAnna is right, I think all of us can very much relate to the heartbreak. Even if you know that the breakup was needed it still hurts. Take your time, feel your grief over the relationship, and remember that somewhere there is a person that needs exactly what you have to give 💕

[HoneySenpais_Stuffie]

We've all been there! I don't think there's anything that can be done to prevent it though, you can stay single of course but at the end of the day, we all need a significant other. Being single though, it gives you time to focus on other stuff. 

Tiredness is a big reason why I was reluctant to get into anything serious after my last break up. I've been single a year, I was dating a guy after it and I feel bad that I just couldn't keep seeing him. He was super handsome and nice and even now he messages me asking for a date. It's like I just don't have the energy. That's not to say I wouldn't fully open myself back up to someone but, it's more of a tiredness I feel, so I totally get where you're coming from. 

Currently unsure if it's just a matter of the right person to come along, but it's probably the case. I believe you'll meet someone who you'll feel safe with and it won't be so scary to fall into it.  In my case though I'm more tired than scared, if that makes sense. 

 

[MissNMTX]

Heartbreak is definitely exhausting.. everyone can testify to that. Especially if you've been through multiple heart breaks.But also, there is always hope the next one could be the best one. Grieve, breathe, take a beat and then keep trying.

[YourDaddySweet]

Thanks for the motivating words everyone. Good to hear it from all of the lovely community members here.

[NickyMoon]

3 hours ago, HoneySenpais_Stuffie said:

We've all been there! I don't think there's anything that can be done to prevent it though, you can stay single of course but at the end of the day, we all need a significant other. Being single though, it gives you time to focus on other stuff. 

Tiredness is a big reason why I was reluctant to get into anything serious after my last break up. I've been single a year, I was dating a guy after it and I feel bad that I just couldn't keep seeing him. He was super handsome and nice and even now he messages me asking for a date. It's like I just don't have the energy. That's not to say I wouldn't fully open myself back up to someone but, it's more of a tiredness I feel, so I totally get where you're coming from. 

Currently unsure if it's just a matter of the right person to come along, but it's probably the case. I believe you'll meet someone who you'll feel safe with and it won't be so scary to fall into it.  In my case though I'm more tired than scared, if that makes sense. 

 

I definitely experienced that too. I was single for 3 years after my last relationship imploded before I even entertained the idea of dating. It’s like it takes a physical toll sometimes. 

[Poutyprincess]

I can relate to this feeling, of being extremely tired... maybe too it is the emotional processing that we do, even on a deep level, that can add to all of that. 💗

[stuffielovingcandymonster]

As everyone has already mentioned, it's something we all can relate to. Take your time to process, you'll find your way through it and come out the other side 😊 one day at a time!