Adulting too much to just be Little?

[Sarah889]

Does anyone else here have a life where you must adult 99% of the time?
A full time job, to come home to taking care off the responsibilities, chores, managing other things, errands etc.
Where time is so tight you struggle, get stressed, exhausted, forget things?

But to the point you are a stressed out, serious person who finds it difficult or near impossible to find the time, and find the mental ability to shut off from adult life and just laugh, play, relax, spend time with Daddy and have fun together?
And where you're even a snappy person cause of it.

You're probably thinking am I even a Little? Yes, I just don't always act like it a lot of the time, because I simply can't. And it is preventing my relationship growing in to more of a DD/LG one.

I just wish I could relax, shut off adult life and adult to-do list and be Little, have fun, laugh, smile, play, and spend quality time with my Daddy.

Advice?
 

[Princess-P]

I know what you mean about being busy and life taking over. I have a full time job, a side business, I'm a mom, I own a home that I'm currently renovating myself, I take care of a senior family member, and between all that there's always little things like having to grocery shop, household chores, feeding everyone, and constant driving to one event or another.

 

For anyone that's a lot. Its overwhelming at times. But even if you take away the CG/l factor its just not healthy to never take time for yourself.

 

The biggest thing, and usually the hardest, is learning to say no. Telling people no is sometimes difficult because you hate to disappoint. And it makes you feel selfish.

 

Its not selfish to need time for you.

 

Your mental health is very important. Without it you aren't going to be able to do the things that make you a super person.

 

So make time for yourself. Put things off, ask for help. That laundry that has to be folded? Do it tomorrow, its not going anywhere, your friend who wants to go for coffee and it always turns into an extended visit... Tell them not today.

 

Do small things throughout your day that make you feel little. For me it's putting a hair bow in my ponytail when I know I'm gonna have to be gone out all day, or colouring a picture with my daughter.

 

Tell your Daddy how your feeling, he will want to shoulder some of your responsibility even if its as simple as helping you with dishes or attending to you while you take a bath. Always communicate, especially if something is concerning you that involves your relationship.

[Sarah889]

Thank you for your advice, you're very right, I will begin dismissing some tasks, doing little things to make me feel more little and try to relax more, allow myself to be little me.

[DeepSpaceDaddy]

Well said Princess-P!