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New Daddy looking for punishment advice and reltionship advice.
beanbean replied to UnrulySaiyan2393's topic in Caregiver Cafe
Yep like stated above communication ask them remember we are all different and the wrong punishment are one deemed unfair can undo a relationship so lots of questions and have a very defined rules and punishments - Today
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shadowrider replied to UnrulySaiyan2393's topic in Caregiver Cafe
Hi and congrats on the relationship. Talk to them to see what types of punishments they are ok with and dead set against first. Being in separate locations can make it more difficult to hand out corrections but not every punishment needs to involve spanking or your presence. You can go old school and have them write lines or do corner time. A rubber band around the wrist, arm, or leg that they have to stretch and pop a set number of times is unpleasant without being too harsh. And you supply the big rubber bands, none of those tiny ones that break easily. Draw a circle or place a sticker on the wall an inch or two higher than their nose. Then make them tiptoe to place their nose in the circle for a few minutes. Burning calves will quickly take away a bratty streak, and it helps define those calves. Kneeling on a cup of raw rice with bare knees will definitely get their attention if they were extra bratty. Use technology to your advantage. Any punishment like the kneeling or corner time can be live chatted so you can verify they are following through with your instructions. Also, live chat the writing lines. Some like to tape pencils together so they can write multiple lines at a time. Sorry to the littles but we're on to your shenanigans. -
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UnrulySaiyan2393 posted a topic in Caregiver Cafe
So I'm relatively new to this. I know I've always been into it for years and I've talked to many littles and established that's what I want but never had a reltionship til now. Things are going good for the most part but the thing is we started getting into the dynamic pretty quickly and it started out very sexual and it still is, but we aren't officially in a relationship yet, she has a son and other life things going on and wants to make sure I'm the right dom for her which is understandable. I think it will be okay we are both learning and we are both very into eachother. I'm just waiting for the right moment to ask her to be mine and make it sweet and I think she's waiting on that also. Another problem I'm having, I have no transportation right now and she does. So when I see her she's the one driving which is fine, but when she's bad or bratty and I need to administer punishment, I can't do so right away, and there have been a couple times where I said she needed spankings then didn't follow through and that was bad I realize. And she definitely does things on purpose to see what she can get away with for sure!! She wants the pubishment aspect i know this. And to be thrown around and out in her place i just wanna be better at it. For now I just tell her when she's bad and I put down tallys for each thing and how many spanking she will get when I see her next. I'm just self taught with all of this so far. I read alot. Downloaded enter the dom by brandom the dom. Awesome book for anyone new to this and wants to become more dominant in every day life in general. Highly recommend. Anyways any info is good info really. I would greatly appreciate guys! Thanks for reading. -
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Lil_K47 replied to Bndr's topic in Caregiver Cafe
I think everyone here has given some sound advice. personally, for me, I feel a well written profile is going to tell me most of what I want to know about a person‘s intentions. If I read through a person‘s profile and their needs/ wants/ desires don’t match my own. I’m not going to initiate contact. As someone who has a personal ad out there, If someone attempts to initiate contact with me and I then go and look at their profile and it says absolutely nothing. there’s a very good chance I’m not going respond back. I feel Iike I’ve been pretty informative in my own profile and personal. so let’s say for example , my ad says I’m looking for a monogamous relationship (which it does) , and someone posts on my ad, and I check out their profile and it’s says for example they are polyamorous, it’s the same as having no information, The chance of me responding back is slim to none! the most important thing to remember in any conversation is to just be respectful! Make an honest attempt to get to know someone. that’s the only way you’re going to be able to tell if your needs and desires match theirs. Actively engage in conversation and don’t make someone ask all the questions, ask questions back as well, that shows somebody that you’re actually interested in getting to know them! i cannot even begin to tell you how crazy it drives me to be having a conversation with somebody and I’m having to play ask 50 questions to get them to engage with me, and all I get back are one word responses, and no questions back in return. I feel like that gives me absolutely nothing to work with. I won’t continue with the conversation for long if someone isn’t engaging back with me. Just my random thoughts. Best of luck. 🥰😊 -
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