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so this is just my own personal experience, so I don't want to discourage you from meeting someone outside of this community. but I have found with "vanilla dating" I have found it way more difficult to talk to guys, because honestly with my kinks and my past experiences I'm afraid that's gonna be a turn off and it's gonna chase them away. or they're gonna think hey she used to be a swinger at one time she's probably easy! And that is so far from the truth! I think with any dating, taking the time to get to know somebody first,before you start talking about intimacy is a good idea. Then if you find your compatible in other parts of the relationship you can start talking about the different things that they are of may not interest you intimacy wise, does that make sense. or well I kinda have my own issues with that but that's what everybody is telling me take the time to get to know somebody first as a person before you introduce anykink related subject. Good luck! Remember they're always people here willing to talk and answer questions 🥰🥰

That was my thought.

welcome!!! and what they already said!!! there's lots of great people here for you to meet if you join groups and become active!

that's a really good question and I'm curious about the responses!

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Pluto

I promise it gets better, right now you are in the middle of a storm and you can't see a way out it feels like the waves are crashing down on you but I promise that in time the waves will calm down and you will be able to see the sun again One day at a time

Stars

milky Way (as in the stars not the candy bar😉🤣

No, too much artificial fragrance gives me a headache. TPBM likes tea parties

Moon

Stars Pillows or Blankie

I have read a lot lately about age-gap being called a kink or desired part of a relationship... I am a bit confused by this.... before I was into BDSM, DDLG, or anything more than basic hand holding really... I was always interested in older partners. Not sure that it was a kink per se... more of a what I was comfortable with, but now that I'm in my mid 40s it is much more difficult to find someone 10 - 15 years older than me, willing to take on my energetic personality... Plus I have kids and many partners do not want that anymore... I have noticed that I am more attracted to maturity than a physical age... so it's not necessarily the age (meaning physical number of years alive), but more the maturity level of my partner that more draws me toward another person... Someone who has their life figured out and is able to be at peace, is much more appealing than someone who is still juggling multiple responsibilities and the drama that come with younger adulthood... Is this similar for Daddies? I am a little so I see things from my perspective... Do daddies maybe look for little that have some innocence to their thinking, and a need to have help with some stuff... not that we cannot be successful adults... I manage a lot as a professional teacher, team leader, and single Mom, but the submissive part of me, the little girl deep within needs guidance and nurturing, too. Is the age-gap thing more a thing of how we view the world? I think I'm trying to understand...

eh not too sure about that one I love a Nutella sandwich or I love a peanut butter sandwich I've never much thought about putting them hmmmmm.... maybe i's should try it! TPBM loves scented candles

airplane and I'm about to show my age here because that's one of my favorite comedic movies! Sun moon or stars

How did you know?! 😊 TPBM loves Nutella and Peanut butter sandwiches

Yes, that's all I used to wear instead of shoes at one time in my life TPBM likes to build a snowman lol

Nini

it seems as if Poppy and I have taken over this game! I'm so sorry please come back I promise I'll let you play!!! of course maybe you all have lives unlike me who's hiding from a bookcase 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Madagascar (Mort cracks me up) Spaceship or Airplane?

now you have to totally imagine that I'm singing that to you because I saw totally sang it as I typed it!

and good night close your eyes little baby! Night

lullabye

siesta!! lol naps are fabulous!