Goodbye, DDlg

[WickedJax]

I have made a terrible mistake, and I'd like to just say goodbye.

 

A little over a week ago my little stopped messaging me. With no warning, no reasons, just end of communication. Not even a goodbye. At 3 days I was worried, at 5 I was angry. In my mind I felt like this might have been her way of ending it, and it hurt. She was the sweetest, most adoring person I have ever met. I posted an ad to the personals, one that has since been removed. I ended up talking to a few different littles, and to those littles I would like to say I'm sorry, I can't speak to you again, I just can't bring myself to. To the one I betrayed, I'm sorry. I asked several of you what you thought, and I got a lot of the same, people seemed to agree that it seemed like it was a sort of break up, even after only a couple of days. I suppose in the context I'd say the same if I were an onlooker. I'm rambling, let me find a point.

 

If I can not even wait 7 days for a little I love, then I should not be a Daddy Dom right now, so I'm saying goodbye, not just to all of you, but to the lifestyle. Thank you all for being such wonderful people, and creating this incredible forum, and thank you all for the advice you gave me, I really do appreciate you taking the time to help. If I ever feel that I'm suited for this lifestyle, like I'm a person who can be a true Daddy to someone so incredible then I may return, but right now that possibility seems bleak. 

 

Thank you all again, and for my final words I'd like to apologize to all of you. A DDlg relationship is something special, something to be honored and cared for. I did not do that. When the dust settled she believed me to be someone who only ever wanted sex. I'm sorry to all of you, I feel like I haven't respected what DDlg actually is. 

 

Best wishes.

[Guest BugBug]

Hey im sorry to hear this. But I dont understand why your being so hard on yourself. For whatever reason she didnt communicate with you for 7days isnt your fault. Its bad commuication on hers.

 

It left you confused and unsure and obviously you acted out by talking to other people. Thats not cheating or betrayal.

If she was busy and couldn't talk then she should have given you a heads up.

To me it sounds like its all one big confusion and you dont need to leave a lifestyle because of it.

Of course i may be simplfying it but seriously id be annoyed at her not yourself.

Hope you dont leave over something like this but if you do all the best.

[PwincessLuna]

Hi 

I'm so sad to hear what happened :C

But like BugBug I think you're very hard with you :/ May it's just a misunderstanding ?

Even if it's not, you probably shouldn't say good bye to DDlg. Take a break but don't leave 

It's not your falt if she just stop talking, there at least 2 people in a relationship if it doesn't work it's because of the 2

 

I don't know you, but I try my best to help you because it make me feel sad if you leave

You seems to be a good Daddy and most important a good man

Think about it twice (or more ! ) before leaving :C

[PeachyPantsu]

Everybody makes mistakes, even Daddies. Don't be so hard on yourself because anybody would read that situation the same way you did. The fact that you can own up to your mistake and apologize for it, all while displaying the level of respect you do have for the lifestyle, I'd say you're more than qualified to be a part of it. There are a lot worse out there.

 

Best wishes.

[WickedJax]

Thanks so much for the kind replies. Maybe I'll just take a month off to get back to myself. Though, of course you'll see me around the forums.