Guest Ddlg_littlegirl01 Posted July 29, 2016 Report Share Posted July 29, 2016 My daddy has gotten really busy the last few months and I bearly even get a text a day now.. Any suggestions on how to fix it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mega Matt Posted July 29, 2016 Report Share Posted July 29, 2016 How has it been making you feel? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest SaladHater Posted July 29, 2016 Report Share Posted July 29, 2016 If I was you I would be freaking out because of the dramatic change in texting pattern. He might be up to no good. Although, I'm only assuming that you two used to communicate a lot but now there's a big enough change for you to make a thread about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Ddlg_littlegirl01 Posted July 29, 2016 Report Share Posted July 29, 2016 He's just been such a big impact on my life and we used to talk every day. Today I haven't heard from him at all. It makes me feel no good..and ya I am freaking out. I've had 3 anxiety attacks in the past few hours and he usually helps me through them.. But again he isn't around.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Zephy Posted July 29, 2016 Report Share Posted July 29, 2016 I'm assuming this is some kind of LDR? Before jumping to conclusion I would say talk this out. Communicate, don't wait for his messages, but approach him yourself. Let him know you and him need to have a serious talk regarding your relationship. You need answers and also how it makes you feel. Regardless of that I do think his behavior is unacceptable and him being neglectant towards his partner. I still believe the right thing to do however is instead of going all "break up" is to try having a talk first. If he refuses or doesn't respond within a few days I would advise to consider to put an end to it yourself as it is starting to get unhealthy for you to be in this relationship. In the meantime I would suggest to surround yourself with family and friends. I wish you the best of the luck though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeCallsMePrincess Posted July 29, 2016 Report Share Posted July 29, 2016 call him. I realize texting has become the thing, but it has also become so easy to ignore them and tell yourself you'll respond later. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mega Matt Posted July 29, 2016 Report Share Posted July 29, 2016 How long have you been dating? Is this a long distance thing? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Ddlg_littlegirl01 Posted July 29, 2016 Report Share Posted July 29, 2016 Yes it's a long distance relationship and almost a year on and off because my parents don't approove. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mega Matt Posted July 30, 2016 Report Share Posted July 30, 2016 (edited) Well you seem like a smart girl. If I were you I would try to engage him more in conversation. Also, tell him how you're feeling without implying that he's doing something wrong. Either he cares, and wants to make a commitment to you, or he doesn't. You want to find out which it is, without pressuring him or putting words in his mouth. Straightforwardly ask him if he still wants to be in a relationship with you, because you're feeling ignored and it makes you insecure or sad about things. Try not to assume anything until you know for sure. Long distance can be difficult, and honestly I don't think i'd do it unless it was temporary on the order of months. There's really no substitute for being in the same space. Let me know what you did and what happened. You can work through this. Easy stuff. You have a good heart for wanting to fix things, and not just throwing it away and moving on. A good heart is attractive. Edited July 30, 2016 by Burning_man Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest NeedToServe Posted July 30, 2016 Report Share Posted July 30, 2016 You can't fix him ignoring you. I don't care how busy someone is, if he cared about you, he would give you at least a little attention. Takes a few seconds to send a simple text. There is no excuse for that. None. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest cottoncandyheart Posted July 31, 2016 Report Share Posted July 31, 2016 This happened when my daddy went through a bad spell of depression at the start of the year where he would barely send a text a day because he slept constantly. I was on the verge of breaking up with him, wrote him a long letter and all, when one day I just made him see sense and told him I wasn't happy. We had a massive long conversation about how I felt, and it's a lot better now. It broke me to pieces, I lost a lot of weight and couldn't concentrate on a single thing. I know how you're feeling, speak to me if you need to. But like others have said in this thread, tell him how you feel. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest annemarie Posted July 31, 2016 Report Share Posted July 31, 2016 whenever my oniichan gets busy it's because he's working or having a hard time mentally. that could be what's going on here and, like everyone else before me has said, you should definitely talk to him about this and find out what's going on. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Ddlg_littlegirl01 Posted August 2, 2016 Report Share Posted August 2, 2016 I still haven't gotten a word so it's over..I've tried and tried and friend but nothing. No sign at all that he even glanced at any sent message. I'm done being hurt. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Ddlg_littlegirl01 Posted August 2, 2016 Report Share Posted August 2, 2016 Tried* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DaddysCandyCane Posted August 10, 2016 Report Share Posted August 10, 2016 lol tell him to fuck off Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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