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Daddy issues...well, not that I have a Daddy anymore...


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I'm going to make this as short as possible. 

 

I had a Daddy..and a few months ago (maybe 6) he got very very sick. He had to have stomach surgery, something burst, I think. We didn't talk for the longest so I just sent him a text and told him to remove me from his relationship on FL and that was that. I guess, I didn't know what his condition really was like, I didn't understand. (Note: he lives in a different state).

 

As of recently, I have been missing him like crazy so I sent him a message on FL and he responded! Finally, last night after lots of crying and being upset, I told him all that was bothering me and how I wish I could have him back. He replied with a very long message telling me everything that happened, how he lost so much weight, he had plans for us, etc. He said he missed me lots and it hurt him that I kind of ended things like that. 

 

So this morning after I read the message I sent him a text and we are talking again. A few hours ago (3 hours ago) I sent him messages but he still hasn't replied yet :( I am not sure if he is sleeping or what...

 

Anyway, I don't really know why I posted this, now that I think about it. 

 

He was the best, he really encouraged me to do my best and he really embraced my little side. 

 

*sigh* I really hope he texts me back...

 

I don't know what to do with myself.

 

Sorry for whatever grammatical errors, I dont feel like fixing it. 

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So sorry to hear of all of these troubles, Elle!  I hope everything works out.  My gut is telling me that he's very preoccupied with a lot of stuff, and I bet he probably is indeed sleeping what with him possibly still recovering from his surgery and whatnot.  It sounds like he really wants to talk to you and that he wants you back in his life, which is a good sign!  I guess all I can say is to hope for the best, and that I hope things work out well for you both in the future! :)

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Like Miko said, I think that him talking to you is good! Taking it slow may be best for now, so you can see how compatible your lifestyles are for being long distance and what not. I hope you make each other smile lots in the future ^w^

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Thank you, before he got sick we were really happy and he was even going to come and visit me. 

 

I'm just so so sad right now...I don't know what to do. I know I wont be able to sleep tonight... :( 

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Thank you, before he got sick we were really happy and he was even going to come and visit me. 

 

I'm just so so sad right now...I don't know what to do. I know I wont be able to sleep tonight... :(

 

Well I know myself and I'm sure many others will be happy to support you ♥ You've had a big day. I know you're probably thinking about this whole situation lots, but make sure you also take time to still think about yourself and get some good rest and noms  ^_^

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Awe thank you, Princess <3

 

After a long sleepless night, he sent me a text this morning!!!! The medicine he takes knocks him out so he said he was asleep

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I'm glad to hear he was just sleeping! I hope things go well for you guys!

I know that medical issues can make it super hard to keep close relationships, especially if you're going through a sort of crisis or near death experience. Just try to be patient and take things slow. It'll all turn out okay!

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About 5 months ago I was with this really nice Daddy. we met off fetlife, we met irl and we was the best daddy I ever had. I loved the time we spent and we were going to go to somewhere one night and we was gunna pick me up and he had to go drive his cousin that day so we said wed talk later and i went to go watch a movie and so later that night i messaged him asking what time he was picking me up. He didnt respond and he still hasnt to this day. His activity on fetlife completely stopped and it was so tramatic for me. I'm still coping and its terrible. I'm sorry to bring this post back but i totally understand what it feels like to have someone disappear on you.

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Aw Bre, I'm so so sorry! I hope he is okay and nothing happened with him. I hope he comes back to you soon <3 

 

I am trying to be patient and be there for him while recovering. He said he wants me back but he's trying to get over the fact, I practically dumped him while he was going through a lot 

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  • 4 months later...

Sorry to read about that,  but it's typical of virtual, on;line-only relationships.  Happens day after day after day.

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