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    #21 DD.RAG



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    Posted 10 April 2017 - 05:41 AM

    It's kind of a relief reading this post, thank you. I have been stressing lately and overthinking everything.

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    #22 PrincessoftheMoon



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    Posted 19 April 2017 - 11:01 AM

    Thank you for this. This is all so new to me still but your post made me feel a lot more comfortable and a lot less nervous.

    #23 Fox&Bunny



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    Posted 26 April 2017 - 07:37 PM

    Thank you for this post! I really needed this

    #24 Guest_AriiBoo😍_*

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    Posted 23 May 2017 - 02:29 AM

    Reading this really eased some of my anxiety...

    #25 Guest_Kali_*

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    Posted 30 May 2017 - 03:49 PM

    Isn't the insistence that there is no true way, a way? *listens to the collective groans from around the room* - seriously though folks - there is no true way... I only wish the major world religions would take note.

    #26 Mario



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    Posted 16 June 2017 - 08:38 AM

    Totally agree. As religion, sexuality is personal and unique. If you are nice to me, i will be nice to you. Don't care about your way of life if you don't hurt me or my friends.

    #27 Gândi_Bee


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    Posted 20 June 2017 - 06:07 AM

    It's a bit sad to me that it even needs to be pointed out. Knowing that people have different wants and needs is a basic principle that everyone (especially in a kink-community) should understand and respect.

    Thank you for being clear on that point. ❤
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    #28 Little Dancer

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    Posted 12 July 2017 - 09:14 AM

    I have been told that I am wrong for being in the ddlg community and being asexual.

    #29 ~*QueenSaiya*~


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    Posted 12 July 2017 - 01:49 PM

    You are absolutely not wrong for being in the community and being asexual. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. There are many, many asexual members in the community. We come in all shapes and sizes and all different sorts of sexualities. Don't let anyone tell you that you don't belong in the community. You are so welcome here, and we're happy to have you here on our forum. The people that said you shouldn't be in the community are closed minded so don't listen to a word they have to say.

    People throw rocks at things that shine, so just dust yourself off and keep on shining!!
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    #30 Daddy's Lil

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    Posted 14 July 2017 - 06:03 PM

    We found our true self's as Daddy and lil. It was only after reserch that we found there was such a thing as DDLG. For us it's a lifestyle. We have our own little kinks. I don't get punished as such we use whipping and slaps as foreplay. This works for us. Each to their own and you should do what feels right in your dinamic.

    #31 osito


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    Posted 17 July 2017 - 12:52 PM

    Thanks so much for this.
    I've noticed how people try flaunt their views as "The Way," and I've seen(and personally gone through) how people struggle to find their place or their title or whatever. But it's a personal and unique thing. We just gotta be who we are and find people who appreciate that and who we appreciate.
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    #32 Guest_daddy_zach_*

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    Posted 31 July 2017 - 12:52 AM

    How can anyone claim to know a "one true way", when every ddlg relationship is unique to the participants ??


    Completely illogical belief.

    #33 Guest_JekyllTheMysticalDaddy_*

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    Posted 31 July 2017 - 03:29 AM

    I agree on so many levels. Every subculture has it's "purists" and the tend to ruin it. I appreciate you taking the time to write this!

    #34 SUeB


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    Posted 05 September 2017 - 05:05 PM

    Oh how i have to laugh at those sanctimonious and ignorant sillies!
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    Posted 07 September 2017 - 04:06 PM

    I am thankful for this post...I am still trying to figure this all out. Glad to know that it is flexible, but this post did teach me that I can't figure it all out until I have a Daddy.  O.o 

    #36 HeCallsMePrincess


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    Posted 16 September 2017 - 03:16 AM

    Well said

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