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    #1 babbymeggg

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    Posted 08 January 2017 - 05:11 PM

    lately when I do something, even just a tiny bit bad, daddy just yells at me for like 10 minutes straight and i don't get spankings or any other punishment, i hate being yelled at, he knows that i hate it. every time he yells at me, i leave the room and just cry. I know daddy doesn't mean to hurt my feelings, but he always does. he's been acting off lately and i'm scared. i don't know what to do. i've tried talking to him (adult self and all) but he doesn't understand and just brushed it off. what can i do to make him stop being a meanie. ?

    #2 HeCallsMePrincess

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    Posted 08 January 2017 - 05:25 PM

    this may sound extreme, but i would use your safeword when he's yelling at you. it might make him realize exactly what that does to you. but based off your other post, which i did read, i feel this might go much deeper. 


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    #3 Daddy's_Babygirl

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    Posted 08 January 2017 - 05:28 PM

    I would for sure use your safe word. But I agree it sounds deeper.

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    Posted 08 January 2017 - 06:26 PM

    Honestly this sounds like it goes right out of your dynamic and just straight into Domestic Abuse. It is NEVER okay to yell at anybody for any reason. I think you need to just step outside of your Little/Daddy roles for a bit, sit down and just talk about why he's yelling at you and if there's anything going on with him to cause this.


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    Posted 08 January 2017 - 06:32 PM

    i've tried talking to him (adult self and all) but he doesn't understand and just brushed it off.

     

    This is a problem.

     

    You seem to be searching for ideas and approaches different to the ones you have already tried almost as if your approach has been wrong.

    Talking to your daddy to explain things that are hurting you is something I believe needs to work for your relationship to work.

    So I would suggest persist in talking to him in the way that works for you. You seem to have expressed yourself well enough here to us, do ensure you are equally clear about it to him.

     

    If he is not responsive to your communication, then your relationship problems are most likely broader that the shouting issue alone.


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    #6 Isabelle

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    Posted 08 January 2017 - 07:16 PM

    I'm sowwie . . dats not nice of your daddy . . . .-offers a stuffie and lolli- daddys aren't supposed to do dat stuffs :(



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    Posted 08 January 2017 - 08:39 PM

    I have to agree with Neko on this. Yelling is highly unnecessary in any type of a relationship. There definitely needs to be a serious conversation about this and ultimately some sort of resolution.

    Edited by Daddy_for_babygirl, 08 January 2017 - 09:17 PM.

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    #8 Francisco Ascaso

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    Posted 08 January 2017 - 09:07 PM

    A real daddy would never need to raise their voice, and certainly not to you in any circumstance.

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    Posted 08 January 2017 - 11:17 PM

    Well.. you posted something yesterday about how he didn't want to be your Daddy

    anymore yesterday and now this today, I'm all for listening to both sides of the story

    and I know I can't in this situation.. but it doesn't really seem safe or healthy for you

    to continue to stay in this realtionship despite the fact that you don't want to lose him

    and that you love him as much as you do. you should love yourself more, enough to

    be able to realize you don't seem to be too happy where you are with him and that

    you deserve much better. your relationship sounds awfully one sided with only you

    putting in the effort into it and that's not at all how it should be. he seem like, at this 

    point, he doesn't at all deserve to have someone like you. 

     

    after reading your last post, it doesn't seem like there's much else for you to do

    if he's not willing to speak about you with the issues you present to him, if he's 

    name calling and brushing you off.. I just can't express how important it is to

    sit back and look at this situation from the viewpoint of others, no one deserves

    to be in the place you are. you've done all that you can at this point, the rest is 

    up to him straightening up or you leaving the relationship. 



    #10 babbymeggg

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    Posted 09 January 2017 - 12:33 AM

    daddy is a good daddy he's always been nice and caring and loving towards me, don't get me wrong... i just don't know, i'm lost. i'm so confused as to why he's acting like this, some people just say he's stressed, he's never acted like this before now and his off behavior has been happening for maybe 2 weeks now, he seems so angry lately, he still gives me hugs and kissies and cuddles but i know something is wrong. i'm scared i'm going to lose him, i don't want that to happen.

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    Posted 09 January 2017 - 12:37 AM

    thank you all so much for being supportive 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗i'm so glad i have you guys >.< 😇😇




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