Daddy Little?

[little_pupper]

Does anyone else have a Daddy who is also a little sometimes? It makes it kind of hard for me to get fully into little mode and I don't know how to please both sides. I wish he was a little more dominant. Any suggestions?

[Guest Ginger]

I don't personally have a Switch as a CG, but I know they're around It's not uncommon, I suppose just less heard of. You two just have to talk and see what works for the both of you.

[TheRatQueen]

My Daddy isn't little, but sometimes he's submissive. I don't particularly enjoy it (I'm not a switch or dominant at all), but it feeds something he needs so I do it. This may not be best for your relationship though! Just sit down and talk about what you both want from your relationship. Maybe write down some of your needs, wants, and concerns beforehand

[Guest QueenJellybean]

There are switches who are both a Daddy and a little, and there are also Service Caregivers, which basically means a submissive Daddy/Mommy/Caregiver! You'll find a wide range of people with a variety of interests here. It's very rare that you'll be totally alone, so don't give up hope. 

 

However, if you want your partner to be more dominant, your best bet is communicating that with them. Good luck!

[MadameButterfly]

My Daddy can act little sometimes, but it's not like full on little space or anything. Just small things like how he calls his mom, mommy (which I think is so funny and cute) and he acts silly sometimes. It doesn't bother me though, because he doesn't do it very often.

[LittleRoseAndDaddyToo]

my daddy (fiancee) had a bad childhood as did i....his parents told him hed end up poor and on the streets, that he wouldnt amount to anything or find someone who would stick with him and just all this crap that comes with having two addicts for parents that never really wanted to have him in th first place so they blame him for everything wrong in their lives. well being my daddy helps him cope with that becuase it makes him feel important and in the end hes a far better parent than them lolz
I also have a very motherly side which as silly as it might sound i attribute it to me being a cancer. Since he had a bad childhood and my future mother in law isnt the best mother in the world i find myself sinking into a motherly role at times, ive known for quite some time he had a middle suppressed deep inside. the first time he really showed it was last December when i surprised him with a convention trip to meet Rikki Simons. Invader Zim was his favorite show growing up and i knew hed love to meet Gir and i was right. The whole bus trip there i was super nervous as i mentioned in another post about being a little in public

"It was my first time on the grey hound and it was a 9 hour trip to this big convention where i would be cosplaying with out daddy, i was nervous and biting my thumb and daddy gave me my pacy and i fell asleep…with it in my mouth and woke up when they turned the lights on. i hide my pacy in my shirt and looked away from the guy across from us who was staring mad hard…..i was so embarrassed for daddy but he told me it was ok, that it was what i needed and that it shouldn’t matter what others think becuase im still his little girl and that his main concern is my comfort"

This was the first time i was little in public and the first time he was "Daddy" in public, another instance was when i was chewing on my finger on the way home and he dug in my bag to find my pacy for me, i asked why and he said he noticed i was nervous and needed it

between these moments he slipped into "middle space" recalling moments in middle school. i still remember when we were walking the show room looking for Rikkis booth and he turned and saw him. His eyes light up like a kid on Christmas day he walked up to him all nervous and he was so excited. he got his gir pop signed and was giddy about it all day. i even set up a surprise interview with Rikki the next day becuase well.... i loved seeing him happy, so we recorded that interview and his Q/A panel and it was great. A few weeks later and he was still so surprised i managed to get the interview and that he got to meet his childhood idol.

Sometimes hell slip into little space when im in little space and its still fine becuase its like hes my big brother. see im the oldest in my family, im 21 my brother is 12 and my sister is 4 so im forever the oldest lolz. daddy has a 15 year old sister and thats it so hes the oldest. hes used to being a big brother and hes always telling me of times hed play games with his sister when they were younger and how he like to do the same with little me. i think thats another way he secretly regresses to when he was younger and happier.

Heh, i could go on and on about daddy and i but the point is im a little but i guess im also a mommy and daddy is well.....my daddy but sometimes hes my little brother or....some times hes my little boy. It works out well since  were both switchs by nature. ive never met another couple with a relationship like ours so it feels weird sometimes. but it works and were both happy.