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******* The post that started it all******* Venting is therapeutic and an open diary gives a sense of release wether or not anyone reads or interacts with it 😂 so now that I’m done throwing a temper tantrum this is more of a daily brain dump of randomness. Part of me is like delete the bitch-fit but this is who I am lol it’s not the first and probably not the last. When I get hurt I cry and get angry and go through all of that mess but I’m also very loving and vulnerable so take it for what it is. Feel free to avoid the mess and skip ahead to page 2 🤣 So many feels. Mostly the big sads. He just up and left the day before Easter. It wouldn’t have been so bad if there was a discussion or a warning or a hey I can’t do this anymore I’m moving out on Monday but there was nothing. Just a text while I was at the zoo and he was safely 1.5 hours away with all of his stuff. Abandonment fear unlocked. I feel a lot better now than I did yesterday and better than I felt this morning when I woke up at 1:30am and was up for the day. I texted with him a bunch today to try and process and understand things and I get it but I don’t. I wouldn’t have made him stay if he just told me everything but I need time like 1 -2 days to come to terms and say goodbye. And part of me is like if he just stayed, if he just came to the zoo with us we had so much fun we went on the carousel and road the train and saw the gorillas hunt for Jello Easter eggs and after 3 hours at the zoo came home for a bit than out for smoothies and to the park and it was so nice and today we had Easter morning and took it slow until it was nice outside and went to the park for a few hours than to get ice cream and it was the kind of days we’ve been missing that just felt so good. I feel like he would have remembered how fun things were when we could get out all the time a big part of our relationship was going out and doing fun hikes and outdoor activities and up until now it’s been too cold so we haven’t had that great part of things. I just feel like he wouldn’t have wanted to leave anymore. I think I’m finally done crying and just at the acceptance stage of things but it hurts I have that weird headache and feeling in my stomach that comes with strong negative emotions. I’m not as angry I just feel sad maybe let down. But also I’m like it has to be me, what is so wrong with me. Was I not little enough, was I not what he expected.Was it because Our whole relationship dynamic changed when my daughter came to live with me, it’s a big adjustment and stressed me out and with a kid around you can’t exactly act certain ways. Plus the pull for attention from both of them It was hard. IDK I don’t know. I don’t like feeling this way. rawr. I just wish he would have come with us, it’s too late now but I it could have been so different.

I've been searching on my own for plus sized DDlg clothing since I'm a plus sized little myself. I hope this list helps you as much as it has helped me! <3 There may be more out there, but this is what I've found so far This is not an all inclusive list, because Daddy and I are constantly searching for websites and shops that sell plus sized clothing. Feel free to leave a shop in the posts that I haven't posted yet, and I'll give you credit for it! Thank you! Key $ = $1-$25 $$ = $25-$50 $$$ = $50-$75 $$$$ = $75+ CowCow : You can design your own dresses, shirts, pants, shoes... whatever! Sizes: Up to 3XL Price: $$-$$$ ChibiBunny : Adorable dresses, skirts, shirts, hoodies, and more! Sizes: Up to 5XL Price: $-$$ DDlg Playground : Onesies, shoes, little clothing, pet play, etc. Sizes: Up to 2XL Price: $-$$$ SockDreams : Cute socks! Sizes: Plus Price: $-$$$ Amazon : A few knee highs I found here and here TeePublic : Adorable shirts! Sizes: Up to 5XL Price: $ Onesies Downunder (thank you to babyjellybean!) : Onesies, bibs, and more Sizes: Up to 5XL Price: $-$$ Littles In Lace : Onesies, toys, pacifiers, bibs, and more (this site doesn't have much, but it's worth looking at) Sizes: Up to 2XL Price: $-$$ Milanoo : Lolita dresses and more! Some sellers allow tailor made dresses, too (kinda.. more than pricey) Sizes: Up to 2XL & more Price: $$-$$$$ Hot Topic : You can usually find cute dresses, shirts, leggings, skirts, etc. here. It can be a hit or miss Sizes: Up to 5XL Price: $-$$$ Torrid : Sometimes a hit or miss, but a great site to find sleep wear, dresses, lingerie, and wide toed shoes Sizes: Up to size 6 (US 6XL) Price: $-$$$$ HollyTeaTime : SO many adorable shirt, dresses, accessories, and more! <3 Sizes: Up to 3XL Price: $-$$$$ TeeTurtle : Cute shirts and accessories Sizes: Up to 3XL Price: $-$$ LittleGear : Shirts and hoodies for all ages! You can even create your own Sizes: Up to 3XL Price: $-$$$ Etsy Shops MerbunnyBaby : Absolutely ADORABLE hoodies, sweaters, dresses, and leggings! Sizes: Up to 5XL Price: $$-$$$ KawaiiGoods : Another super cute store with shirts, pants, dresses, skirts, and hoodies Sizes: Up to 3XL Price: $$-$$$ MagicCircleClothing : Shirts and jewelry Sizes: Up to 5XL Price: $-$$ JigglyPunk : Shirts, crop tops, and sweatshirts Sizes: Up to 2XL Price: $$ SugarHai : Shirts and crop tops Sizes: Up to 3XL Price: $$ vfever : Shirts and jumpers Sizes: Up to 2XL Price: $$ StarChaserClothing : So many cute dresses, skirts, shirts, and hoodies! One of my favorites on this list <3 Sizes: Up to 3XL Price: $$ BomJitJit : Shirts, sweatshirts, hoodies, and jackets Sizes: Up to 3XL Price: $$-$$$ PNKSLVR : Sailor Moon inspired shirts! Sizes: Up to 4XL Price: $$ DaniLambDesigns : Adorable hoodies, dresses, skirts, leggings, and more! Sizes: Up to 3XL Price: $-$$$ Collars : Most sellers allow you to customize them to your neck size Sizes: Any size you need, usually Price: $-$$$$

I thought I would share some of my drawings 😊 A cute snake. Any fellow reptiles lovers here?🩷☺️

Hi! I'm not sure if anyone has made a topic about this before, but here i am posting about it haha so i don't know if it's like this for any other littles, but when i get my period it gets really hard for me to regress and fall into/stay in little space. do you guys have anything that you do for this? and caregivers, what do you do for your littles? hope everyone is doing well! 😘

If I was a mix of 3 animals I would be a raccoon, red panda, and unicorn mix so that i could be colorful, fluffy, and have magical powers and a horn!!!!!! :3 wbyyyy?

hello everyone! shuli here! or you can call me juju too😊 my pronouns are she/her. I’m new here I was searching online for a place to talk with others either littles/middles/caregivers.. cause I find it hard to find people from this world that not instantly jump to s3x situations/conversations. I want to make friends here! people who I can openly talk to and be me😊 I’ve known about bdsm and ddlg since I was 18 (I’m 30 now) and It’s a fascinating word for me. I never have the chance to fully experience being a little because I couldn’t find the right person to be open about that side of me. Anyways I’m a makeup and Nail artist, I work at home and I’m also studying to be a kindergarten teacher. I have two cats, love coffee and horror movies. I of course LOVE animated movies! Kung fu panda is my favourite. My first language isn’t english so I’m sorry for any mistakes. I’m from Argentina, my first language is Spanish. I’m still trying to figure out how this forum works! I consider myself to be shy at first but once I warm up to you the shyness goes away 🙈 I think that’s all I have to say here!! thank you for reading💗 byeeee 🎀

I’m a little and i really want a caregiver irl to be my caregiver (as well as a little so I can care for them and maybe kink stuff not related to that.) but it’s really hard to find anyone that is interested in that and it hurts cause I had a old caregiver but they broke up with me (they were also my partner) but I’d like it to be a woman or someone who is gender fluid or non binary that identifies as a female I guess? Also probably wouldn’t mind being in a poly relationship I guess? But only with woman or someone who is gender fluid or non binary ect

Hello there! My name is Nikko and I am very new to this place and using forums in general. Somethings about me: At times I can be pretty shy and may not actually talk in threads. I am ADHD and Autistic, with these things I have what I now like to call "Side Quests" of memory issues, issues with understanding somethings, and probably a lot more that I can't think of at the moment. I am pagan but not fully practicing at least not yet. I am almost always either gaming, sleuthing the internet, watching a show, or all of the above at the same time! I have a lot of life stresses at the moment so I am all over the place but working on smoothing things out. If I do not answer right away I am not ignoring you I am probably hyper focused on something and forgot that the rest of the world still exists. If you want to know more feel free to read my about me (I highly encourage it as it has important information about me). I hope to meet more people around my age and maybe find a Daddy too. I can't wait to learn more about DDlg and the likes. I also hope to make some friends! Thank you for coming to my ted talk about me!

Hi there, My nickname is Ce but I don't mind being called Sunshine or little or any nicknames you can think of. I think nicknames are endearing as long as they are respectful. I am brand new to this community... I just made an account yesterday and I don't remember the last time I have posted on a forum. 🙈 Also... I have never been in a relationship with this dynamic. I knew about DDLG from adult sites and fictional erotica (which I know might not be representative of real life.) I know I am a little, though. I am here to finally explore my little side in a safe way. I am single, and I enjoy being independent (well because I have to) however it has its moments when it gets lonely and I just want a daddy to lean on and take care of me. 😌 I am also hoping I can make friends with other littles because although I might be shy at first, I love making new friends and laughing with them. Right now I love to play Animal Crossing on my Nintendo Switch. I love cats, I have two that don't stay with me but I visit them every day if I can. I'm looking forward to meeting and talking with CGs and middles/littles/babies soon, Ce

I am a 19 year old little from the United States, I have never had an official caregiver but either a mommy or daddy sounds like the best dream come true! I have been invested in the lifestyle for a few years as a product of many traumas that I’ve experienced through my life specifically childhood. I think that my ideal relationship would be a very soft, loving and gentle type of one. I’m not too huge on punishment or anything but I love praise! And I also love to be good. I’d say I fall more into the princess/babygirl category. Likes: Cuddles, being bottle fed, dress up, coloring, PLUSHIES!!!!, arts and crafts, feeling comfy to be myself, playing with dolls, coloring, journaling, listening to music, and lots more. extra fact: I love to collect 2000s toys 😊

Hola! soy un DaddyDom argentino, con varios años en el DDLG, al cual considero mi lugar en el mundo, ya que me encanta la parte tierna y tambien el lado kinky por igual 🧸⛓💕 Me considero honesto, divertido, cariñoso, paciente y responsable, esta clase de relaciones no me parece que se deban tomar a la ligera: somos personas y no productos descartables. Además de cuidar y preocuparme por el bienestar de mi little, me gusta compartir pelis, dibujos, videojuegos, comics o algún pasatiempo o hobbie que a ella le guste. Tambien pasear, cocinar, leer y aprender algo nuevo siempre. No soy perfecto (nadie lo es) pero siempre trato de ser objetivo y empático, y comunicación mediante se pueden resolver muchas cosas. Asi que busco conocer alguna little-sumi que desee conocer un Papi y llegar a algo serio (con tiempo y sin prisa), y tambien hacer amistades por supuesto! Si leiste todo esto, tomá una 🍭 🙃

I don’t really know what to write here. Just wanted to say hello to everyone. I'm little from Europe. Chubby Bunny and sort princess. I really into smut books and cuddles. I'm not experiencing age regression, but I really want to hug and receive love for the little side of me.

Be careful, this message has been translated with the help of a translator. Hello everyone again. I'm in therapy, but so far the symptoms of recurrent depression are still with me. I may have a personality disorder. But you can live with all this, you can live well and control your emotions and feelings. I think also that little and his calmness will help me with this. Haha, I really calm down when I care. I wouldn't say I'm aiming for a romantic relationship. It's just that now it's important for me to support this little. He's neurodivergent. I'd like to ask others daddy/mommy/dom/cg who also have Little/middle with neurodivergint. Is there anything in common that is worth considering? I know we're all different, they're all different. Rather, I'm reaching out to those who have a relationship with little with ASD. I'm completely decontaminated. I'd rather find out something than hurt it. This is an extremely stupid question. But it's important to me.

Be careful, I use Yandex Translator because my knowledge of English is below the skirting board. Hello everyone Last night I thought about a rather important question. I know that most often Little\middle has psychological and/or psychiatric problems. But today I would like to talk about couples who have such problems. It doesn't matter who it is. I'm just curious to know how and what is going through. Unfortunately, I have a couple of diagnoses looming and I'm extremely worried about it. I don't want to harm, I don't want to carry unnecessary worries. Last year I already had problems with a relationship where two people have problems. And we broke up on that basis. I recently met a man from a neighboring town, but his psyche is extremely unstable. And yesterday I wondered if there could be a relationship where cg might have problems (which are naturally corrected with a doctor). I will be glad of any answer.

hey beautiful people I am currently making a post about creative ways to brat and I figured id get some input from the community on ways you brat your daddy Dom/ caregiver/ mommy Domme. please comment below and give me sone ideas please thank you so much

Hello y'all! My name's Zoe I'm a Little, my age can be between 5-10 years old. I am still learning about myself and my little space. Irl I am 25 years old, I love reading autobiography books and drawing. I love to cook too and when I am really happy I like to sing silly songs. I am not taken. I wanna be a part of the DDLG community, so here I am! Hope to make some new friends soon! Zoe 🍓

Hello everyone! In adult terms I am 37, Libra and September baby. In the sense of my little her age can range from 5 up to 10. I'm a passionate person who enjoys reading, learning and a big time gamer! I enjoy gothic to metal head styles of clothing & music. I absolutely LOVE to cook! I've been in the scenes for 19+ years and always looking out for new friends. I am a member of FetLife and now here (yay!) lastly but not least, I am a taken little by my husband who has in his me love of discovery, found he is a Daddy 🖤 thank you for having me here. hope to chat to all of you soon - xox -JujuBear

Hi! I'm new in the forum but it's been a while that I've been looking for littles by my zone so we could chat and maybe meet sometime...so...any little from Mexico? I haven't seen anyone...

My name is Kitten but you can call me anything as long as it’s not any dirty words. You’ll get my real name after we talk awhile. I just turned 24 but I don’t really have an exact little/middle age. And it’s not always something I can just turn off and on. I hate adulting so I’m very immature at times. Even tho I’ve had this account for a long time I still haven’t been able to find a daddy or at least a real one. Especially one who wants to take full care of me. Mentally, emotionally, physically and hopefully financially. Not saying I’m looking for a sugar daddy just saying I’m not good at managing or even counting money or keeping it. Tho I do love to be spoiled and won’t say no to free stuffs lol. I’m very inexperienced and haven’t been able to fully enjoy what makes me a little/middle. Especially with my previous partners. Not saying I want to be little/middle during sex but I just want to be myself and enjoy myself without being judged or having a fake daddy who just wants to enslave me. I’m sorry that this is so long but if you want to get to know me more please message me. I’m not always on here so please be patient.

What is your favorite thing about being a Little/Middle?? (I know sometimes it's hard to pick just one, so you can add more than one if you want to!) 🤪

Hi! so I'm not entirely sure if this is the right place to do this but nowhere else has been much help, if there's somewhere better to be asking this feel free to direct me that way! ❤️ I was wandering what some things people here did if they've lost their little space, or have had a period of time where they have really struggled to get into it, since I've been battling it for a few weeks now with consistent struggle even around my CG. I already do the recommended stuff. use pacis do little things colour, watch cartoons, listen to music that makes me small etc. speak to my daddy and have time with him videocalls etc. he uses "baby voice" and calls me ALL the baby nicknames. I'm looking into getting a Sippy cup or something similar, but I'm only willing to go so far with my little space, i.e. me and my daddy aren't all that interested in bringing diapers into the space. But all of the above wont seem to shift my little space to come out. any suggestions/ help? edit: Thanks for the suggestions! ive managed to get it back a little bit!

Hallo allemaal, Zoals sommige weten was er een poosje een Nederlands topic wat er voor heeft gezorgd dat er destijds een meeting was in een park in Utrecht. Ik weet niet of deze mensen het hebben gemerkt, maar de maker van dat topic zit niet meer op het forum. Dat is voornamelijk de reden dat ik deze nu start. Zo kunnen nederlanders toch nog met elkaar kletsen en/of tips en tricks delen. Ik hoop dat het net zo een gezellig topic wordt als dat de vorige was. Liefs Littledutchone

Hello! I want to start by saying a big "thank you" to this site. You all have already helped me so much when it comes to understanding and exploring this lifestyle and community. I have spent a long time lurking, so I wanted to finally make an account and, hopefully, join in the discussions. I am a Gen X sub exploring my little side. I feel like, for a lot of my life, I was trying to prove I was a grown-up and was always trying to get people to take me seriously. Now that I'm 50, I want to lean in to my little side and be myself. I'm mainly looking to learn and find community and friendship and one day, hopefully, find a caregiver, but I am in no rush for that whatsoever. I am really into nostalgia, as you maybe could tell by my PFP, and also collect toys (mostly dolls, hot wheels, and Star Wars figures. Not so much expensive collectibles, but stuff I think is cute or cool). I'm a big bookworm and am kind of crafty (I knit). Anyway, thanks again for making this space!

I’ve been with my little girl for a few months, but we’ve known each other for years. The more time I’ve spent helping her do her little activities, the more I’ve realized that I may have a little side as well. When telling her about this, she took it very poorly and became distant, and I’m afraid she isn’t going to stay with me. I’m saddened at the thought of losing her, but also confused with myself at this moment. If anyone has any advice, I’d love to hear it.

Although I am not currently looking for a little, I wanted to honestly vent about desiring to be a daddy / caregiver I have always seen myself as a ‘daddy’ or ‘caregiver’ material. Personality-wise, I have always volunteered my time to the causes of others. However, I do acknowledge that I may not be deserving of the title until I earn it from a little. Weeks ago, I made a post asking questions on how the daddies / mommies / caregivers in the sub approach their roles. I have learned a lot since but my self-reflective journey continues in fully understanding the simplicity and complexity of being a daddy and what that entails physically, emotionally, psychologically, mentally. If I am ever granted the role of being a daddy or caregiver, I will not only cherish it as a sign of humbling pride, but to selflessly ensure that I keep it. Loyally and faithfully, I will make my little exceptionally happy, comfort them in the darkest moments and cherish them in their happiest ones. I will text them good morning and kiss them good night. I will adore them with hugs and embrace them cuddles. I’ll support them in person and hold the in spirit. Finally, I’ll unreservedly accept them for who they are, faults and all. If you are out there, oh little one, this is solemn promise to you.