FarawayTeacher Posted February 15, 2017 Report Share Posted February 15, 2017 Hi, I've recently gotten into a relationship with someone online, we've been friends since mid september/early october last year and we grew quite close over the months. Early on in our friendship, I must've done something incredibly right, because he shows that he feels safe around me and trusts me. He's told me his secrets, insecurities, interests, and even admitted he's into verbal(?) DDlb. Anyway, I tried my best to learn more but it's difficult to find answers for my particular situation. I have never been a dominant guy, or I've never thought so, and my little boy is expecting that. He said when we first started dating that I needed to set rules for him,and I'm unsure how to do that for a Non-sexual/LDR(it's mainly flirting haha). I'm a big softie when I talk to him, I call him cute a lot and ask about his likes/dislikes, and I've realized how protective I am too. But, I'm not restrictive or a "bossy" dude and i also don't want to force it. I just want him to be satisfied and happy. He's also informed me he's a "bratty type", so this also confuses me. How does setting rules work in my position? and How do I bring them up? Can I start with something basic, like his eating habits?(he doesnt eat vegetables or fruits and it's concerning). Please help me get started. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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