BigCityLittleGirl Posted February 27, 2017 Report Share Posted February 27, 2017 So I have had a not so easy life... My mother abandoned me as soon as I graduated H.S. (father passed at a young age) She had bought me a dog , a Pomeranian I named Precious. She is my everything. After my mother left I was moving from place to place since with nothing but the clothes on my back (she had claimed we we're moving and put everything in storage but then left and never paid the storage place so everything I had owned was thrown away, she also emptied my bank account without my knowledge and according to the law I could do nothing bc I was 17 when she did it apparently) I was forced to give my dog to my grandparents until I was able to find my own apartment. (My grandparents are very unloving towards me but they loved my dog I know they would care for her just fine) I would keep precious for a week or two out of each month, I paid for her vet bills, I bought all her food and toys, grooming, ect When I would visit I realized nothing I bought was being used. In fact I found most of what I bought in a box unopened in their closet. I confronted them about it and they refused to speak about it. Any who fast forward last year I get a call from them saying they moved to Arizona and are keeping my dog. I was hysterical. They hung up on me then blocked my number for a month then called and apologized, but mostly bc they realized they can not live over there any more (too hot, no car, doctor is too far) and asked me to help them find an apartment back over in NYC. Of course I agreed but then they stopped returning my calls and didn't respond to the letters I mailed. I figured they ate just being angry or whatever but I had a bad feeling so I finally called the police today to do a wellness check on them. Make sure they're alive and well. The police called me back to say they are fine but they said they don't ever wish to have contact with you ever again and if you want to see your dog you need to get a lawyer and file a police report. Much of my depression and anxiety is related to my dog. I often blame myself for what happened and feel like a bad mom. I have awesome friends who agreed to take my dog in for free and are urging me to file the report to get my dog. They even offered to pay for me to go to Arizona get my dog and come back. However I am unsure if I should. I am scared that if I file a report the police will side with my grandparents bc they have been caring for her all this time. If that happens I could never ever forgive them. And honestly I don't know how I can even go on knowing I can't see her again as every day I go to sleep and wake up crying about her. Any advice??? This is my baby http://i64.tinypic.com/29behrb.jpg Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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