BrandyWine Posted March 11, 2017 Report Share Posted March 11, 2017 Hi all. I came across the dd/lg community very recently; in fact, only last night did I realise it is actually a community, with defined names and terms. I've indulged in a lot of "little" behaviour in my relationships, not as a defined role, but more as a way of playing and interacting. Because it's fun, and it feels good, and I like being taken care of. So far, it hasn't become a part of my sex-life, though it does appear in my fantasies. I had trouble finding the distinction between dd/lg and incest, and I didn't feel comfortable explaining it to someone else. I'm currently in a relationship, and I'm not sure how to bring up this new idea, and how to experiment with it. At this point, I don't know if it's a relationship that will last or not, and right now I feel like I would definitely like to explore this community more at some point. I'm tempted just to wait until this relationship comes to a natural end and then explore more. How did you all handle this? Did you get into the community with a partner, or find one within the community? Another thing that worries me is the boundaries. I've been in abusive relationships before, and I'm concerned about setting boundaries so that I'm only a little at certain times, and respected as an adult at other times. How do you manage that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Create an account or sign in to comment
You need to be a member in order to leave a comment
Create an account
Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!Register a new account
Already have an account? Sign in here.Sign In Now